Last week when I found out I was working Saturday and would have Monday off, I suggested to Michael that we go visit the place we had our first date (and later, our first kiss.) It’s a beautiful state park with giant rocks right on the ocean. The location has always been special to me, but since it gets very crowded in the summer, we hardly ever go. Knowing that the weather was supposed to be beautiful on Monday, I thought it would be a perfect time to visit.
I woke up on Monday cranky. Not for any reason, just because. I think I even told Michael to stop being annoying.
Later, over my morning crankiness, we drove out to the rocks and sat out in the sun. It was lovely. Michael sat behind me and I reclined on his legs. We snuggled and kissed, reminisced about the early days and enjoyed the ocean.
We were silent for about five minutes when he asked me what I was thinking. I said it was two-fold. One, I was really happy. And two, I really had to pee.
I guess taking that last statement as a “it’s now or never” type of thing, Michael asked if I was ready to go to lunch. As we stood up, he pulled me into a hug. With my head pressed against his chest I remarked that his heart was beating a mile a minute. “I need to work out more,” he said. “Climbing the rocks made me tired.”
I found that answer perfectly normal, and we continued hugging for a few minutes. When he pulled away, I thought he was going to say let’s go to lunch. Instead, he took the sunglasses and camera I was holding in my left hand and placed them on a rock.
I looked at the rock, then back at him confused. Just as he was getting down on one knee.
He said some wonderful things about loving me and wanting to spend the rest of his life with me. I was shaking like a leaf and saying “Oh my God, oh my God, are you serious?”
I was vaguely aware of him slipping a ring on my finger, but I was too wrapped up in hugging and kissing him to really notice. When I finally regained enough composure, I pulled my hand out from around his back and looked.
And began squeeing all over again!
(Also, I completely forgot I had to pee!)
My ring. My beautiful, gorgeous, amazing ring. I cannot believe I get to wear this for the rest of my life.
Or the fact that I have a fiancé. I have a fiancé!
After we were able to walk again, we headed to Newport for lunch, where I proceeded to eat exactly three bites of my meal because I was so excited. I also only slept from midnight to 3 a.m. because my mind was racing with engaged/wedding thoughts.
I’m engaged to the man of my dreams, the love of my life, my Michael. I have never been more happy.
So, for your viewing pleasure, some close ups of my bling.





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September 25, 2007 at 12:05 pm
Courtney
Lovely! So sweet!
September 25, 2007 at 12:10 pm
clinkny
I got chills reading it.
And also, holy crap with the intricacy of the ring. It’s absolutely stunning from the side. I love that it has a vaguely vintage feel to it. Beautiful.
Congrats, congrats, congrats.
It reminds me of a quote from Almost Famous – “it’s all happening.” And, truly, it is.
September 25, 2007 at 12:24 pm
miriam
Oh my good Lord. That ring is ca-razy. From the earlier picture you’d have no idea it was that intricate.
How many times am I going to say congratulations to you today? CONGRATULATIONS!
So, you don’t even remember what he said? Does he?
September 25, 2007 at 12:29 pm
Lisa
It’s all so romantic.
You guys are going to be so happy together. And it doesn’t hurt that the ring is just. too. beautiful. Can’t wait to hear about the wedding plans!
September 25, 2007 at 12:35 pm
Kateastrophe
Ok that side view is to DIE for!! I guess the whole ring is to die for!
What a great story. Congratulations!!!
September 25, 2007 at 12:36 pm
Lisa
Fun! That’s hilare that his heart was beating so fast. Hooray for you guys!
September 25, 2007 at 12:39 pm
verybadcat
That ring is incredible. Stunning. What a proposal! No one told me “These Little Moments” was really a fairy tale… that you get to live out in real life. Congrats. Michael did a great job, and you will have an incredible story to tell for years and years and years to come.
September 25, 2007 at 12:40 pm
Barb
That ring is absolutely gorgeous! I agree with Clink that you couldn’t tell right away how intricate it was. What a great guy… and you both are lucky to find each other and enjoy a long and happy life together…
Now the fun begins!!
September 25, 2007 at 12:51 pm
brookem
that’s such a sweet story. so nice that he chose to do it at the place that has so much meaning to both of you, and to the journey of your relationship. it’s an absolutely gorgeous, breathtaking ring.
September 25, 2007 at 12:53 pm
Hope
Wow! That is one of the prettiest rings I have ever seen in my life! And such a lovely proposal story. Congrats once again!!
September 25, 2007 at 1:09 pm
onebigholiday
I love that! The best story and the ring is absolutely amazing!
September 25, 2007 at 1:09 pm
elizabethews
Really, Molly, that ring is SPECTACULAR.
Great story too. Ahhh….I’m so, so, so happy for you!!!
My first words of wisdom to the engaged you: tell people you’re engaged wherever you go (like restaurants) – you’ll get free stuff.
September 25, 2007 at 1:17 pm
mikesgotnothin
Ok, so now can we do some work?! Kidding. Congrats again.
September 25, 2007 at 1:19 pm
Michelle
happy tears, i can’t help it! that is such a sweet story!!
and yes – that ring is TO DIE FOR. gorgeous.
September 25, 2007 at 1:25 pm
Jess
The ring and the story are both beautiful! It’s all so perfect and amazing. Congratulations again!
September 25, 2007 at 1:40 pm
Sue
Too Exciting – Good for you Molly! Yes, your ring is beautiful and you will make a beautiful bride!
September 25, 2007 at 1:44 pm
...BeccaLynn
Oh geez, girl. I am soo happy for you, I have goosebumps. GOOSEBUMPS from hearing that story. And I’m crying. Thanks a lot, Miss Molly.
You guys are adorable!! I am soo happy that you’re spending the rest of your life with such an adorable man! And that ring, too.
September 25, 2007 at 1:45 pm
...BeccaLynn
(I wish I was there to hug you!
)
September 25, 2007 at 1:50 pm
bloggingbarbie
i don’t want to scare michael again (wow, that BB is really excited!) but yeah, oh so happy for you.
proposal? perfect. ring? perfect. you and m? perfect for each other.
heart. tear.
xo, bb
September 25, 2007 at 2:00 pm
Stephanie
The story, the ring, you two… =100% Perfect
September 25, 2007 at 2:05 pm
your mom
first, i have to give kudos to michael for managing to pull this off so well. i know the pressure must have been tremendous, not only because she’s been waiting for it so long and so vocally at times (naaaaaw…) , but that it’s kind of become a public thing with the blogging….
i will say, he’s a good guy, if you haven’t already figured that out…
the weather was one of those 10 best days of the year, by the way….and i would guess she will chalk this up as one of her 10 happiest moments…
as a mom (and one who eloped using turquoise hopi indian bands from an earlier road trip to santa fe as impromptu wedding rings… this glittering “bling” stuff makes me nervous..), this is really new territory on many levels.
she called me at work right after it happened, “squeeing” into the phone.
while she is squeeing and i am grinning, i look up from my desk to gaze for a moment at the 5×7 framed photo of my 3-year-old molly, plastic barrettes holding little wisps of reddish blonde hair…twinkling eyes and a large, crooked smile.
a little bit of a happy tear forms, and i wonder how we got here so quickly….
September 25, 2007 at 2:08 pm
clinkny
Molly’s mom – I, too, started to tear up.
Molly – we’ve also said it before, but your mom is awesome.
September 25, 2007 at 2:08 pm
clinkny
*tear up at your comment
September 25, 2007 at 2:30 pm
*kb*
Molly Mom, you just killed me!!!!!!! So, sweet and touching!!
Congrats Molly, the ring is beautiful and I’m so happy for you!!
September 25, 2007 at 2:45 pm
Melissa
So happy for you both! And your ring is gorgeous! And Mom made me cry. Why is it that Moms have such an innate ability to do that? Congratulations!
September 25, 2007 at 3:00 pm
MG
Congrats Molly!!
September 25, 2007 at 3:01 pm
L B
What a perfect proposal. Oh gosh, you kids really, really love each other
that makes me smile all the way in PA! Uhhh bask in the engagement girl who needs sleep anyways?! you have a fiance and a very beautiful and classic ring (which I absolutely love, he did a great job!). Oh, how life can be so happy
September 25, 2007 at 3:02 pm
L B
so….. your mom just made me cry.
September 25, 2007 at 3:04 pm
aernyc
Oh my gosh what a fantastic proposal, so romantic! And so perfect! I’m so happy for you and michael
And your mom just totally got me all sentimental and ready to cry!
September 25, 2007 at 3:11 pm
Amber
Oh, it’s so beautiful – and I’m SO jealous! What a lovely proposal story, I’m so happy for you
September 25, 2007 at 3:14 pm
DG
MY HEART IS BEATING FAST!!! I am OVERLY excited for you! YOU DESERVE IT MORE THAN ANYONE!!!
p.s. your mom is amazing.
September 25, 2007 at 3:25 pm
LMizzle
Oh man that made me teary! So lovely!
September 25, 2007 at 3:55 pm
Anna
How come your mom doesn’t have a blog?
September 25, 2007 at 4:14 pm
alissa
Sounds absolutely perfect!
September 25, 2007 at 4:15 pm
Stephanie
I’m with Anna.
Molly’s Mom you should SO have your own blog.
September 25, 2007 at 4:33 pm
Johanna
Awe! And the ring is AMAZING!
September 25, 2007 at 4:44 pm
libby
how beautiful! your mom should so blog…and BIG HUGS to you and michael!
September 25, 2007 at 4:59 pm
DevilsHeaven
OMHG, that is some ice sister girl! Congrats.
September 25, 2007 at 5:58 pm
Marie
Your ring is absolutely gorgeous!!! Congratulations!
September 25, 2007 at 6:41 pm
a714generation
your ring is STUNNING!!!! and not to detract, but how did you get such incredibly clear pictures? What settings/camera do you have? I need to take some pics of jewelry for a client and am having issues!
September 25, 2007 at 6:42 pm
puremotif
UGH. that was ME again… I HATE that my hubby has a wordpress blog. it totally screws me up. can you delete that? so waht i said was…:
your ring is STUNNING!!!! and not to detract, but how did you get such incredibly clear pictures? What settings/camera do you have? I need to take some pics of jewelry for a client and am having issues!
September 25, 2007 at 6:52 pm
Princess Pointful
The ring is gorgeous. Man got taste!
He must love that you made the proposal so easy for him by choosing such a great location and date randomly!
September 25, 2007 at 7:11 pm
Ellie
Your ring is absolutely beautiful, what gorgeous detail along the side. It’s breathtaking! And SUCH a beautiful, romantic, meaningful proposal, thankyou for sharing it with us. And I second what Princess Pointful said about how cool it was that you chose that date and that location!
September 25, 2007 at 7:25 pm
Tina Vaziri
I’m such a sucker for sweet stories, you made me leak ocular fluids.
His proposal sounded perfectly beautiful, what a sweet sweet fiancé!!! you have!
September 25, 2007 at 9:21 pm
pbandrazz
I love it! The story and the ring – so beautiful!
September 25, 2007 at 9:58 pm
mcole78
Great Post Molly!! Great news good luck with all the planing that is ahead of you.
September 25, 2007 at 10:58 pm
Samantha
Such a wonderful post! It actually gives me hope, hahaha! Best wishes to you and that is a GORGEOUS ring!
September 26, 2007 at 1:45 am
Charlotte
The bling looks UNEFFINGBELIEVABLE from the side!!!! It’s PERFECT. How awesomely sweet that his heart was doing the mambo, lol. Cheers to both.
September 26, 2007 at 2:15 am
Cecile Weekly
Congrats, congrats, congrats! What a beautiful ring! And what a beautiful moment to propose!
September 26, 2007 at 8:39 am
Lisa
Molly, here’s something to kick off your wedding planning:
http://jeshderoxweddings.blogspot.com/
http://www.jeshderox.com/
He takes THE. MOST. BEAUTIFUL. engagement portraits I have ever seen in my life. I swear every single woman I’ve showed these to just melted. Even my husband loves them. They’re so natural… and private.
I can just imagine you and Michael having your pictures taken by him on those giant rocks right on the ocean.
Hope this helps!
September 26, 2007 at 9:10 am
A Lil' Irish Lass
Congratulations, Molly!!! My eyes filled up with tears as I was reading that. I am SO happy for you. Michael sounds amazing and you two seem to be so very much in love. And that ring? Exceptional.
September 26, 2007 at 10:04 am
crystall
Congratulations Molly. The ring is perfect.
September 26, 2007 at 2:27 pm
Stacy
Congratulations on the engagement! That ring is stunning!
September 26, 2007 at 2:40 pm
fox
Congratulations.
Shopping for wedding dresses was one of the most fun things I’ve ever done. And tiara things. And veils. It’s like Halloween on a roller coaster.
September 26, 2007 at 10:20 pm
Chelle
Molls… I’m so happy for you! Had a really sucky couple of days back home and didn’t really want to come back. And now I’m so excited after reading your posts. I can’t wait to give you a BIG hug!
Michael… She’s amazing. You’re amazing. So excited for both of you!
September 26, 2007 at 11:11 pm
tattler
I’m late to comment, but what a great story!
I seriously visited your page a million times this week just to look at your ring! So pretty. And, yes, your mom made me cry too!
September 28, 2007 at 7:33 am
Amanda
That is the most beautiful ring I’ve every seen.. seriously!
Congratulations x
October 11, 2007 at 9:42 am
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November 29, 2007 at 4:06 am
eyesaswindows
Holy crap… whata ring. My man is intimidated by a single diamond necklace. Your M’s got style!
January 8, 2008 at 2:35 pm
Meghan
OK so this is when you get to think I’m weird….
I dont even know you but yet IM SO EXCITED FOR YOU!! Being that, I have been through exactly what you have been through. I can’t even remember what Boyfriend even said to me when it happened…too wrapped up in the moment. So glad for you!!!!
April 3, 2008 at 9:50 am
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April 3, 2008 at 10:56 am
Abbie
This is old, but Molly’s mom…I’m all teary eyed now, thanks to you.
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May 16, 2008 at 12:24 pm
bloggingkate
HOLY GOODNESS GRACIOUS!
You don’t know me but on this Friday afternoon I was blog-surfing and came across your post…I love “proposal” stories! It was so sweet, and your ring is GORGEOUS! CONGRATS (belated of course) and best wishes for you and your fiance’s future!
August 17, 2008 at 7:43 pm
Chris
I’m the one poking around the archives on this lazy Sunday.
I love seeing your ring again- it’s so beautiful! I’m not going to lie…I’m dreaming of the day when I write a post like this!
September 24, 2008 at 8:01 am
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January 8, 2010 at 5:52 am
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