I always do this. I have the best intentions of Christmas shopping for other people. I remember snippets of conversations all year long. I file away things they’ve mentioned or if I can’t come up with anything, I flat out ask them. I write lists. I plan budgets. I get it done!
Except somewhere along the way, I also do some shopping that’s not on the list. Mainly, for me. I bought one thing for Michael–the first season of Everybody Loves Raymond because he likes that show and wanted to start collecting the DVDs–but all the other stuff was for me.
Like the Ralph Lauren skirt that is so sexy-sophisticated and totally a classic item that I can wear forever.
Or the turquoise crocodile bag that is such a unique color and fantastic addition to any wardrobe.
Or the v-neck top that’s super flattering.
(Do you see how I’ve justified each purchase?)
The thing is, I shouldn’t be spending money on myself. Especially since with the wedding and switching jobs (you know that lovely period of time when you’re done getting paid at one but haven’t gotten paid at the other?) money is tight.
But I didn’t buy any shoes!
Yet.
What have you bought for yourself this holiday season?
PS- If you’re looking for some holiday gifts for babies, my friend makes the cutest booties. Check out her Etsy site, Kaya’s Kloset!



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December 18, 2007 at 11:48 am
Ashley
oh dear god I went to the outlets to Christmas shop last weekend and spent upwards of $100 on myself at the Gap.
to hell, in a handbasket. I’ll see you there.
December 18, 2007 at 12:03 pm
crystall
Nothing
I totally should though.
December 18, 2007 at 12:05 pm
elizabethews
Don’t you know the rules – you’re not allowed to buy yourself stuff during the month of December – especially you with a b-day IN December!!
That said, I’ve purchased (for myself): A dress, matching shoes, earrings, a new bag, more shoes, some really nice Michael Kors pants (love), and more shoes.
See you’re doing WAY better than I am!
December 18, 2007 at 12:09 pm
Miriam D
I always do this. I bought myself new boots this christmas. I don’t know why, they were just so pretty.
December 18, 2007 at 12:11 pm
Jess
Brown suede boots, justified because I have no shoes to wear with my brown skirt in the winter. See, I bought shoes! I suck.
December 18, 2007 at 12:24 pm
Each
two dresses from Anthropologie, though i needed one for a fancy christmas party my boyfriends brother and sister in law are having (justify)
a pair of sparkily flats to wear at work, but they were from old navy and super cheep (dont like to wear heals to work, too much ice)
lotion, cause i need it and it was on sale.
Stilla pressed powder and Benefit under eye cover up, all from Sephora, cause i need it.
oh and there are some boots i am eyeing…
(justify justify justify… crap, my birthday is in dec too)
December 18, 2007 at 12:24 pm
Stephanie
Oh let’s see, where do I begin…
a too-expensive but really cute (and warm!) coat,
dark, perfectly-fitting Seven jeans (half price!),
a pretty, gold, holiday-esque shirt,
a gold necklace (to go with the shirt!).
Wow. My birthday is four days after Christmas. This is BAD.
December 18, 2007 at 12:38 pm
brookem
God, I have been doing the same thing! I was just saying to my roommie the other day, for every ONE item I’ve bought for someone else, I think I’ve bought at least two for myself. And sometimes I just go and shop just for me! I’m out of control, frankly.
But, I have a nice new pink cashmere sweater, a new pair of black shoes, a new necklace, ring, and earrings, and a four new lip glosses.
December 18, 2007 at 12:41 pm
DevilsHeaven
I’m a summer birthday, so I’m safe! However, I’ve bought myself ONE thing, ear muffs. How fancy and sexy is THAT??? But they are the new kind that don’t mess up your hair because they come from the back of your head.
Justified?
I do want a new coat though, I’m just waiting for the after Christmas sales.
And now, after reading this, I feel the need for a new Christmas top……
December 18, 2007 at 12:45 pm
chasingparadise
Two pairs of ballet flats. Dinners out. New makeup. Fingernail polish. A blanket. LOL!
December 18, 2007 at 12:45 pm
kwarterlifecrisis
Actually… nothing really! Although, today on my lunch break I’m doing some quick shopping and I’m planning on getting myself – are you ready for this? – some new black socks. Wow, my life is so thrilling.
I’m saving the real shopping for when I go home. The things on my list are: dress for NYE wedding, new black boots and clothes from the Gap (because I have a gift card). Clearly, I’ll be needing a hanger bitch for that trip.
December 18, 2007 at 12:51 pm
Jack
Let’s just say I owe $500 on the credit card and all of that is for me.
December 18, 2007 at 12:53 pm
Kari
I bought a dress, tights, shoes, and a wristlet to go to the play in baltimore. I really think that’s it….wow, I didn’t do as bad as I thought I did!
And our bills are soooo screwed up I’m not buying anything else until Feb. 1st.
December 18, 2007 at 12:55 pm
littlespoon
I bought my Gus Gus ornament!
December 18, 2007 at 12:55 pm
Peter DeWolf
I haven’t purchased anything for myself.
Though I bet I could rock that v-neck top…
December 18, 2007 at 12:57 pm
Elle
I just bought myself a new car
December 18, 2007 at 12:58 pm
Clink
Um, yeah. You already know that I’ve spent a gazillion dollars on myself but I’m all procrastinating with getting my family gifts.
I suck.
But my new boots are tres cute.
December 18, 2007 at 12:59 pm
pie
I JUST bought myself the cutest jacket from J.Crew (but it was on SALE!), tall brown boots and really impractical shoes to wear for NYE but may also double as the shoes for my wedding reception.
*sigh* I need to stop shopping for myself.
December 18, 2007 at 1:02 pm
Sparkel
I always feel guilty when the cashier asks “do you need a box and gift receipt?” and I say “um…no. It’s for me.”
But I have bought things for the house, so it’s not only for me! (This is how I justify it.)
December 18, 2007 at 1:40 pm
Anna
Oh, just, well everything! Because it is all on sale! And right there!
New shoes, new pants, new camera stuff…uh…also to hell, in the same handbasket as Ashley.
December 18, 2007 at 1:40 pm
Michelle and the City
brown tights from express
and a dress and shirt from banana republic
oops
December 18, 2007 at 1:40 pm
Banana
Really cute Placemats and a serving platter from Peir One. But I need them to serve guests!
(Also, I’m a huge nerd – placemats and a serving platter? What happened to the days of “light grey straight leg trousers and brown leather boots”?)
December 18, 2007 at 2:23 pm
Melissa
Absolutely nothing! The guilt of it would do me in – with Christmas presents galore to buy, 4 birthdays in December, plus a wedding and honeymoon to save for. Gah!
December 18, 2007 at 2:39 pm
Ashley
I am the same way. Not one christmas present has been bought but oh i’ve spent a lot on myself. Like the two betsy johnson dresses that i just HAD TO HAVE because they were so dirt cheap. And the new phone that I got because i need a new phone right? Yeah there goes another 100. And currently I am drooling over a pair of brown buttery soft leather shoes from banana that are only 40 but considering i have, oh, ZERO in the bank, thats a lot for me. I hate being jobless. It sucks.
December 18, 2007 at 3:06 pm
bloggingbarbie
hmmm as of yet, i haven’t gotten anything really for me…but i do work toward the mall and there is a couple days before xmas, so that statement could turn around quite quickly to bite me in the ass…awesome.
December 18, 2007 at 5:42 pm
Starchase
The whole Lancome counter, 2 pairs a shoes, 3 pairs of pants, a handbag, a shirt, underwear, 2 dress shirts, hair accesories, 2 walllets, new paper scissors, cardmaking stuff & partridge in a pear tree.
December 18, 2007 at 6:34 pm
Suki
Just bought this awesome yellow bag today. Can’t wait to bust it out, my friends will freak at the non-blackness of it. It’s so fab, and it was on sale but I’m not even going to try and rationalize – Merry Christmas to me!
December 18, 2007 at 6:46 pm
Jamie
Ahh yes, the “one for you, one for me” shopping method. I know it well!
I’m going to Vegas next week so I’ve been buy a couple little black dresses and some shoes. Also, putting aside money for a gorgeous Miu Miu bag.
December 18, 2007 at 9:01 pm
qu33nbee
Shoot girl, I’ve hardly spent money for Christmas presents, much less on myself!
December 18, 2007 at 11:35 pm
mikesgotnothin
yeah, I got nothin’. well, i did buy these cool patriots cups and plates and bowls tonight at stop and shop. they were a buck each. and, come on, who doesn’t like patriots cups, bowls and plates? well, besides you.
December 19, 2007 at 2:23 am
libby
i’ve been buying boots/shoes like its nobody’s business!!
December 19, 2007 at 3:20 pm
tia
hmm…lemme see…so far a bought a cute red sweatery-dress type thing, a couple pairs of earrings, some Dior mascara…
i think that’s it.
but i’m not done with my christmas shopping yet, so i’m sure i’ll manage to pick up a few more things…for me.
December 20, 2007 at 12:28 am
pbandrazz
Thank goodness it isn’t just me! I have spent way too much on myself lately (and not nearly enough on anyone else). This is mostly because I know what i want, but I have no idea what other people want. Make sense? I thought so.
I have bought dresses, boots, sweaters, shoes…and I just recently qualified for a Luxe card at Banana Republic.
December 20, 2007 at 1:47 am
Maxie
This year I managed to do a really good job… I only got myself 4 bottles of nail polish and some makeup… normally it’s A LOT worse.
December 22, 2007 at 10:45 pm
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