Born: December 31, just short of the new year. The baby born on January 1st belonged to a nurse who worked at the hospital. She had a C-Section.
Age three. I began taking ballet classes. I remember the smell of new ballet slippers, the feel of my hair pulled back tightly in a bun and the desire I felt to be one of the older girls wearing overalls and scrunchy socks and dancing to “Born in the USA”.
Age five. There’s a big couch in my kindergarten classroom. I like to sit there and read. My teacher lets me stay longer than the other kids because she says I’m accelerated. This makes me feel special.
Age six. My sister is born. I go from being an only child to sharing a room. I love every minute of it, except when she cries. That I can do without.
Age nine. I’ve wanted to play the violin since I saw Itzhak Perlman perform on Sesame Street. I’m given the opportunity to choose an instrument in fourth grade and I don’t hesitate for a second. A home video of me playing “Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star” a week after picking up the instrument shows my family trying to hide pained faces.
Age 10. My parents divorce. I break out in hives.
Age 13. I try my first drink at someone’s Bat Miztvah. It’s a Zima and it’s disgusting. I give it back after one sip.
Age 15. High school. I join the crew team and get in the best shape of my life. I meet my first boyfriend and date him until graduation. I travel to Europe.
Age 16. Playing the violin pays off. I spend my summer traveling to Australia, New Zealand, Tahiti and the Cook Islands with my high school’s traveling orchestra. I hold a koala, play a digeridoo, see everything from extreme poverty to extreme wealth and refuse to eat kangaroo.
Age 18. I get into all the schools I applied to, but can’t afford my first choice. I cry for two straight days until I have a revelation somewhere over the middle of the country as we fly home from a trip to California. I decide to accept the scholarship from the college in Rhode Island.
I graduate, but I do not cry.
I leave for college on my sister’s birthday. This time we all cry.
I drink too much the second week of school and find comfort in a girl who lives on my hall. We become instant friends.
Age 19. I meet a boy in a sexy blue uniform. He kisses me by the ocean. I fall in love.
Age 20. I meet a crazy/wonderful girl that tries to talk me into joining a sorority. I laugh at her.
Then I join.
Age 21. We host a huge New Year’s Eve party at the beach house I live in with the instant friend, the crazy/wonderful girl and my roommate from freshman year.
Later in the year I become severely depressed for no reason. It takes almost two months to discover I needed to switch my birth control. Within days of the switch I was back to normal.
Age 22. I graduate college. Walking across the stage is a blur. But as I step off the stage and cross through the arch, the first thing I see is Michael, arms outstretched, beaming at me. He scoops me up in a hug and my heart skips a beat.
I scan the audience for my parents and see that they are beaming as well.
Age 23. After working in a daycare for almost a year, I begin to panic and think I will be stuck there forever. I have what can only be described as a quarter-life crisis. It is not fun. While checking my email one morning, I notice a Monster ad for a publicist position. The ad mentions a love of chocolate and a sense of humor. I am late for working because I’m filling out the application and writing a cover letter.
I get the job.
Age 24. Twenty-four proves to be the best year yet. I make amazing friends who are understanding when I leave for a new job. I become part of an amazing community of bloggers who are there for the good times and the bad.
I get engaged.
I am happy.
Monday is my 25th birthday. And I know that 2008 is going to top all the rest. From kicking off the new year in Vegas, to pledging my love to Michael in October.
I couldn’t want anything more.
(Except maybe some Louboutins.)
Happy New Year to all of you!




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December 28, 2007 at 2:13 pm
kristin
reading your age 23 made me feel.. suddenly.. a lot less alone. if 24 was your best year yet.. i imagine 25 will be beyond fabulous. cheers to you (and those christian louboutins)!
December 28, 2007 at 2:19 pm
Michelle and the City
happy early birthday darling! i have a feeling 2008 is going to be such a great year for all of us!!
xoxo
December 28, 2007 at 2:24 pm
Jess
Happy New Year to you too, and happy almost-birthday! I hope you have a fabulous trip to Las Vegas and I am so excited for it to be our wedding year!
December 28, 2007 at 2:27 pm
itsallabouthallie
Happy Birthday! This will be one of your best years! I wish you the best in ‘08! Happy New Year!
December 28, 2007 at 2:33 pm
Audrey
Happy Birthday!
December 28, 2007 at 2:39 pm
Barb
Happy Birthday and have a happy new year in Vegas!!
December 28, 2007 at 2:40 pm
Sassafras
FUN!
2008 is going to rock.
December 28, 2007 at 2:47 pm
Valerie
Great post! Happy birthday. I played violin in the 3rd grade but I had to quit when my teacher moved. Her baby died and she wanted to move away
I wish I’d gotten to play longer.
December 28, 2007 at 2:50 pm
Melissa
Happy Birthday!
December 28, 2007 at 2:51 pm
La
How I wish I could afford to buy you those Louboutins. You know I would
Happy Birthday (again) and hope it’s absolutely wonderful, just like you!
xoxoxo Happy New Year!
December 28, 2007 at 2:53 pm
Katie
It sounds like you have had a truly wonderful life
Hope you have an amazing birthday too!
December 28, 2007 at 3:03 pm
qu33nbee
Aww. Another beautiful post by Molly. Peter said yesterday that that was his favorite Molly post. This is mine.
Happy Birthday!!
December 28, 2007 at 3:05 pm
Peter DeWolf
Happy pre-birthday, Molly!!!!
Wait… you tried Zima?
December 28, 2007 at 3:06 pm
Jack
Gosh I hope Year 24 is as good for me.
December 31st will be my 23rd birthday and umm… outlook not so good.
December 28, 2007 at 3:13 pm
Courtney
Happy, Happy Birthday and Happy, Happy New Year!
December 28, 2007 at 3:15 pm
Britt
Happy Birthday!! Have a great day
December 28, 2007 at 3:22 pm
Ashley
Age 22: Get really drunk before formal, make up song about naked asses, sneak parrot bay rum into lame Portugese dance club, get smashed, dance the night away, steal styrofoam caterpillar and chuck it out the window in a fit of drunken rage.
have i mentioned how much i adore you? happy early birthday my dear. xo
December 28, 2007 at 3:24 pm
Elle
Ooh I love the age 22 comment that muffin just left! You are crazy and wonderful as well. I love you..happy early birthday!
December 28, 2007 at 4:00 pm
distracted spunk
Lovely post! And have a wonderful birthday and enjoy the new year in Vegas!
December 28, 2007 at 4:05 pm
dreamgrrl
aw that was awesome ! Happy HAPPY early birthday and have a great new year!! 2008 is going to be so awesome for us, and of course - as a fellow RI bride, we can always go to each other for help! 25 rocks!
December 28, 2007 at 4:39 pm
chasingparadise
Happy (early) Birthday, Molly! I’ll be turning 25 soon, too. Such a weird age. You’ve had an amazing year. I’m sure that, as you predict, 2008 will be even better! Happy New Year!
December 28, 2007 at 4:47 pm
Sandy
Happy early birthday! and happy New Year also.. just wanted to stop by and let you know that I’m new here and I love you’re writing! It’s so endearing :).
December 28, 2007 at 5:28 pm
gibsondog
Happy Birthday! Mine was yesterday. It rained. Mine was postponed.
December 28, 2007 at 5:43 pm
alissa
Happy Birthday and Happy New Year! Thanks for making my 2007 so bright darling.
December 28, 2007 at 6:20 pm
elizabethews
Yay! It’s your birthday! Finally I can give you the card I bought you months ago. It’s going to be late. It’s been stamped and ready to go, but I haven’t made it to the mailbox yet. sorry…
December 28, 2007 at 6:26 pm
pbandrazz
Happy birthday and cheers to 25 being even better than 24!
Would like to know how parents muster up the strength to sit through those painful concerts and recitals when we are young. Seriously, I think back to my own days in choir and I couldn’t stand listening to the orchestra. Eek.
December 28, 2007 at 6:27 pm
pie
Today is my birthday but I am entirely too lazy and upset about all of this damn snow to write a post about it! Yay for Christmas birthdays! Have a great one!
December 28, 2007 at 6:28 pm
pie
oh and the Louboutins? I got my first pair at 25 and they are soooo damn divine. Definitely worth the wait.
December 28, 2007 at 7:02 pm
littlespoon
AH! You’ve now reminded me I only have 5 months until I turn the dreaded 2-5. Eek! Wowza.
Happy Birthday Darling! I know it will be wonderful. This is the age you will be when you get married! Squee!
December 28, 2007 at 7:39 pm
Hazel
Happy early Birthday!
December 28, 2007 at 9:20 pm
mikesgotnothin
Having read all of this, i’m just glad to be a part of it somewhere. Happy Birthday!
December 28, 2007 at 10:35 pm
Tina Vaziri
Happy early birthday!! 2008 is going to be great for you. My birthday is coming up in Jan. also, I’m excited for my 24th since your 24th was so fabulous!!!
December 29, 2007 at 1:43 am
Lisa
Cute! Happy Birthday!
December 29, 2007 at 2:25 am
The Casual Perfectionist
I hope you have a wonderful birthday and a fabulous 2008!! (And, for what it’s worth, you may have missed out on the New Year Baby status, but I’d bet your parents were thrilled at tax-time.)
December 29, 2007 at 7:52 am
Damsel in Digress
loved this post. especially the line about the ocean and the kiss … and the one of michael waiting for you with open arms near the graduation stage / finding your parents in the crowd beaming too.
happy early birthday, ms molly. and happy new year! what a fantastic year it’s going to be
December 29, 2007 at 11:52 am
indianamatt
Hope the good times keep coming! Life is amazing. Happy Birthday and New Year!
December 29, 2007 at 1:26 pm
DG
I was THIS close to being in Vegas for the new year!!! Oh well… have a great 25th birthday and an amazing time in Vegas!!! XOXOX
December 29, 2007 at 1:52 pm
Princess Extraoridinaire
What a wonderful post - Happy Birthday to you, Molly! 25 is going to be your best year yet!!!
December 29, 2007 at 5:49 pm
A Lil' Irish Lass
Happy New Year and Happy (almost) Birthday!
I have thoroughly enjoyed reading you these past several months. I look forward to more posts in 2008!
December 29, 2007 at 8:10 pm
Ashley
Happy early birthday!! This year is going to be a fabulous one, I can already tell.
Wishing you all the best! (and have tons of fun in vegas for me!!)
December 29, 2007 at 11:13 pm
Anna
Wishing you a wonderful birthday and wonderful year. And it has all been going so well who knows, you may even end up with a pair of Louboutins after all!
P.S. The violin? Seriously? I had no idea. What a Renaissance woman you are.
December 30, 2007 at 2:02 am
mcole78
Happy Birthday Molly. Also happy New year
December 30, 2007 at 3:28 am
caitlynintherye
What an amazing lifeline. Loved the way that you wrote this, and hope that you have a fantastic birthday and New Year. I’m excited for a while year of new posts and new stories!
December 30, 2007 at 3:29 am
caitlynintherye
I forgot to mention my excitement for a while new year of SHOES.
December 30, 2007 at 10:03 am
poodlegoose
Girl, I know that I don’t know you, but reading your post is a little strange. Perhaps we could have been friends in another life! I, also, was the girl on the couch in kindergarten reading after all the other kids were gone, I watched the Sesame Street with Itzhak Perlman, I still play the violin, and I, too, worked at a daycare at 23 and had a “quarter-life” crisis. I am currently 24 and about to get engaged soon.
I guess it’s just coincidence, but it’s nice to read about someone who has so much in common with me. Happy New Year to you! I hope you are extremely happy and blessed… you sound like your last year was incredible.
December 30, 2007 at 10:22 pm
libby
happy 25th molls!!! party like a rockstar and kick off an amazing 2008 tomorrow
December 31, 2007 at 11:01 am
Maureen
Normally a lurker, but I have to say what an amazing post. Happy birthday! Definately had the same thing happen to me with the birth control–ortho tricyclen? craziest thing ever! glad you were able to figure it out like me (but of course not after being crazy for a bit–haha)
December 31, 2007 at 12:55 pm
Jess
I already commented on this post, but now it’s December 31, so I am double commenting so I can say: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
December 31, 2007 at 2:05 pm
Pessimistic Redhead
Happy Birthday and Happy New Year!
December 31, 2007 at 2:47 pm
daily editor
Happy birthday! I hope you have a kick ass New Year’s!
December 31, 2007 at 2:53 pm
CuriousC
Ditto! Happy Happy Day!
December 31, 2007 at 3:50 pm
cdp
Happy Birthday gorgeous! Wishing you much love, light and delirious happiness. May the warm glow of the holiday season be with you all year. LOVE.
xoxo
January 1, 2008 at 12:16 pm
L B
happy new year and happy birthday molly!!!! wait, you’re going to Vegas?! (ok that joke is probably getting old, but it reminds me of you and mike so I will continue to use it!) have too much fun and yes, you are 100% correct when you say 2008 is going to be absolutely fabulous
January 2, 2008 at 10:54 am
Stephanie
Are we the same person?
Ballet at 3, accelerated reader at 5, sister born at 6, play violin at 9, parents divorce at 10, meet a boy and fall in love at 19.
Seriously!
Also, since our lives are apparently so in sync, I’m hoping that 24 will be my best year yet (with a ring in the near future)!
Cheers to 2008!
January 2, 2008 at 11:24 am
Each
well… it WAS Zima…
yuck
Happy Birthday lovely!
January 2, 2008 at 7:27 pm
Emily
I love your post ideas… happy birthday!!! :o)
January 3, 2008 at 5:30 pm
The Lisa Show
Happy birthday!! This is going to be a spectacular year for you. Cheers!
January 3, 2008 at 5:52 pm
katelin
Happy belated birthday!!