Wedding nightmares and a question. Where are you??

February 27, 2008 in blogging, dreams, wedding planning

Hello? Is anyone out there? Where have you all gone? I’m feel like you all disappeared.

Crickets.

I also had another wedding nightmare last night. This time my hair was a frizzy mess and my mom told me to get over it, my dress was some gray thing and people were standing in the aisle while I was trying to walk down it. Then, as we were trying to say our vows, people were talking and getting up to leave. I actually thought to myself, “This has to be a dream. I’ll wake up.” But I didn’t wake up. Instead, Dream Molly started yelling at her guests to sit back down and wait till everything was over.

I cannot tell you how happy I was when I actually did wake up.

So, um, yes. Really. Where have you all been?

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February 27, 2008 at 11:32 am

Kitty

Still here! Just reading quietly. I like your magnet!

February 27, 2008 at 11:34 am

Jess

I have been here and reading. It’s been a quiet week, I think. Also, I have to say that even though I am not an advocate of the save-the-date magnet, yours turned out really cute. I would totally put that up on my fridge.

Also: gah! The wedding nightmares! Why won’t they stop?

February 27, 2008 at 11:35 am

Dutchess of Kickball

Aw you guys look so happy together in that picture. Where can I go buy some of that?

February 27, 2008 at 11:39 am

kristin

you two look fabulous in that picture!

February 27, 2008 at 11:44 am

bing

Your save the date is really cute! I like it a lot. And you two are sooo perfect together!

Sorry about your wedding nightmares. I’ve just been having strange dreams in general. Maybe it’s the weather…

February 27, 2008 at 11:48 am

tina

Good job! It’s a great photo. And red and purple are fab color sections.

P.S. I read every day!

February 27, 2008 at 11:51 am

dreamgrrl

i love it! so cute another milestone!

Wedding dreams are awful, terrible, no good - very bad. And they always seem so silly when I wake up and tell them. Main themes: music, hair, dress, weather. Can you tell what I’m worried about???

February 27, 2008 at 12:03 pm

puremotif

i am here!! i really like the save the date. where did you order them from? it is so nice and modern, iw ould like it on my fridge.

also you were in my dream last night. weird? i know. but its happened to me with a few blogs i read, if i see pics of them, sometimes they will be in my dream. don’t be freaked out. but your hair looked non-frizzy in my dream and really pretty

February 27, 2008 at 12:07 pm

Courtney

I like the magnet STD idea. I remember my wedding dreams–wearing a black gown. No shoes. No flowers. Nightmares, I tell you! How are you going to wear your hair? I think you should post ideas soon : )

February 27, 2008 at 12:08 pm

Anna

I know, it feels really quiet out there in blogland.

LOVE the STDs (save the dates, that is, not sexually transmitted diseases) and love the photo

And my wedding dream Anna was that I was alone in my house on wedding day wearing tight jeans and cowboy boots (you know, like I always do), and my hair was a frizzy mess, since I had gotten out of the shower and NOT EVEN COMBED IT while running around sweating looking for everyone. Where were they? At the church, waiting for me, so I had to put my dress on OVER the jeans, since I couldn’t get the cowboy boots off, I couldn’t do the buttons up the back, and I ran into the church like that, frizzy hair flying.

I was NEVER so glad to wake up as I was that day.

February 27, 2008 at 12:12 pm

soula

You two look great that picture!! I read everyday, i just selfishly never comment

February 27, 2008 at 12:19 pm

heidikins

Cute magnet! Adorable photo, and the blurring is just “fantastic”… now I won’t be able to stalk you in Rhode Island…. boo! hiss! ;o)

xox

February 27, 2008 at 12:19 pm

Shana Leigh

Thats a bad dream. But I’m sure it will go off without a hitch.

February 27, 2008 at 12:21 pm

i love it! much better than i had imagined.

February 27, 2008 at 12:23 pm

Laurie

I love your save the dates! They look fantastic. I totally had nightmares - I think it is hard not to when the wedding planning dominates your brain!

February 27, 2008 at 12:24 pm

crystall

Haha I don’t think I have to tell you where I’ve been

You look beautiful in that pic Moll.

February 27, 2008 at 12:25 pm

sizzlesays

You two are a stunning couple.

February 27, 2008 at 12:27 pm

notsojenny

that picture looks like it would come with the frame. that’s awesome!

February 27, 2008 at 12:31 pm

Ashley

i do that in my dreams all the time - this has to be a dream, wake up…now! and then i don’t and start to panic because holy crap, i’m really walking to work with no pants on???

and then i wake up.

February 27, 2008 at 12:33 pm

Ashley

ps you are pretty.

February 27, 2008 at 12:33 pm

Hi! I’m right here! (*waves*)

February 27, 2008 at 12:37 pm

Mike

Is that really you in that picture?

February 27, 2008 at 12:47 pm

Miriam D

I’m still here, just not commenting as much. There are still people here!!!

February 27, 2008 at 12:53 pm

cdp

Dude, omg, please stop with all the cuteness in that picture. It seriously hurts. It’s blinding me.

Also, I think there is something going on with feedburner and google, just fyi. It has been eerily quiet in my neck of the woods as well. Strange.

Anyhoodle, I totally feel your pain on in the nightmare. Just a dream though! Everything’s fine! Look at your precious save the dates and everything will feel much better, lovey.

ps I second ash re your much gorgeousity. tres purty.

February 27, 2008 at 12:57 pm

elizabethews

I swear I’ve been reading, I just have been lacking on the comments. Sorry.

But the dream - HA! I think it’s funny. Imagine people talking during your wedding. I’ll kick their a$$es. No worries!

(oh, unrelated - thanks for the article about the lobster mac & cheese)

February 27, 2008 at 1:02 pm

Dani

I’m here, I’m here!!!

You’re wedding will not have one snag, maybe tiny insignificant snags, but no major occurances! You and Michael will be something to gawk at, in a very good way, and your dress will look sensational…especially w/ your new and improved bod!
Frizz however, will be tamed by products and an amazing style!

February 27, 2008 at 1:06 pm

pie

Hello? It is me you’re looknig fooooooooooor? I hope to have now just implanted lionel richie into many brains!

Anyway, the STD is precious. Just like y’all!

February 27, 2008 at 1:17 pm

JenBun

We’re here, Molly! We’re here and we love you! We’re here and we love you and we think that your save the dates look WONDERFUL!!!

February 27, 2008 at 1:24 pm

Michelle and the City

the blog world seems quiet lately, no? but i’m here and always reading because, well, you’re awesome.

February 27, 2008 at 1:25 pm

judi

i got a LOT of wedding nightmares a few months before, too. in one of them my dress was this HUGE purple thing. not really an ugly dress but um NOT a wedding dress at all. i was horrified. i think i also had a dream that the hair stylist didn’t show up or something hair related. they’ll go away and you’ll look faaabulous

February 27, 2008 at 1:26 pm

poodlegoose

I like your Save the Dates a lot. I was considering them, but I’m not sure I wanna do them anymore.

And I wouldn’t take those wedding nightmares seriously

February 27, 2008 at 1:33 pm

Katie

I’m here, I’m here, just uber-busy at work. Love the Save the Dates…the black and white looks beautiful!

February 27, 2008 at 1:48 pm

Princess Extraordinaire

I LOVE your STD magnets! The pic alone is amazing - you look beautiful and M looks handsome…..I a sorry about your dream - thank goodness it was just that - a dream!

February 27, 2008 at 1:49 pm

Princess Extraordinaire

Okay - by STD I meant Save The Date..lol

February 27, 2008 at 1:52 pm

Amber

Those are absolutely fabulous - love them : )

And I’m here, just very, very busy …

February 27, 2008 at 1:58 pm

Each

around… actually just 20 minutes from you, so where have YOU been (with cookies for me specially.)?

February 27, 2008 at 2:00 pm

renae68

Love, love, love the magnet. I’d put it on my fridge, and I don’t even know you guys! It looks like one of those pictures of the perfect people that comes in the frame when you buy it.

I think I told you about my pre-wedding shoe nightmares? I couldn’t find my shoes, ended up a barefoot bride, and everyone had left the church while I spent way too long looking at my shoes.

Here’s another one I had: The true part - had an accident when I was a teen, and had to have a root canal on my top front left tooth. I still have to go every two - three years to have it re-whitened.

Now for the pre-wedding nightmare: I dreamed that tooth fell out! I was a toothless hag at my own wedding!

Not telling you this to scare you. But, your dreams are normal. Your wedding will be perfect. No one will stand in the aisle, no one will get up and leave. I promise.

If they do, let me know and I’ll come knock THEIR tooth out. (J/K! I’m actually pretty harmless.)

–r
http://www.renaebrumbaugh.com

February 27, 2008 at 2:24 pm

Caz

Hi! I’m new here! I tend to be a quiet blog reader but I do love to read your posts! I’m a 20-something from Vancouver, Canada and about to dive into starting my own blog. No idea what I’ll write about that will be interesting though. I’ll give it a shot.

Also, I’ve totally had wedding nightmares and I’m not even engaged!!! My bf and I are living together though and will be taking the plunge one day in the years to come. It’s still freaky to have those dreams.

February 27, 2008 at 2:33 pm

heatherdc

Love the magnets!! the colors look great and the pic is very cute

February 27, 2008 at 2:56 pm

littlespoon

I wish I had been on the ball enough to send Save the Dates…oh well. And it has been rather quiet lately.

February 27, 2008 at 3:36 pm

Kate

Love the STD… I don’t know what’s happening with mine
My sister was mocking up something casual, but then P decided our invitation designer should do them, but haven’t heard from her for ages. Ah, wedding stress.

Once again, am feeling so jealous of your engagement pics- it’s such a great idea (not so big in NZ yet though).

And I’m here, reading and commenting. It is quiet out there, though- just when I find all these great bloggers they stop blogging. So no following Clink’s footsteps please!

February 27, 2008 at 3:51 pm

Jessica Lynn

love your magnet…your picture is so cute!! the office i am working out of only allows me 10 min of “QUOTA” time to go on the internet A DAY. seriously?! So I can only check my fave blogs once a day, its killing me. So I am here, just not commenting a lot because it eats up my quota =)

February 27, 2008 at 3:56 pm

banana

Oh, the wedding nightmares. I continued to have them over a year AFTER the wedding.

Also, very cute Save the Date. I’d fridge it.

February 27, 2008 at 4:32 pm

tia

love your save the date. so cute.

i used to have wedding nightmares that it was the day of the wedding and i had forgotten to send out the invitations.

February 27, 2008 at 4:41 pm

The Bug

You are beautiful! I love the magnet idea.

February 27, 2008 at 4:58 pm

aly

YAY! The save the dates are great! This weather is not so great! Hope you are having a fantastic day.

February 27, 2008 at 5:54 pm

Ms Polka Dot

I forgot to scroll down

February 27, 2008 at 6:17 pm

katelin

Aw what a cute pic!

February 27, 2008 at 6:37 pm

Kateastrophe

Loverly save the dates! I’ve been reading I promise. I will always read I’ve just been a bit overwhelmed and not commenting so much.

February 27, 2008 at 6:50 pm

carrie

i’ve been reading! and if someone sent me such a beautiful save the date, i’d be inclined to not only save the date but make plans to buy a big present!

and nightmares of anxiety? boy do i hear that…

February 27, 2008 at 7:16 pm

Clink

You already know that I LURVE it. Gorgeous, gorgeous.

February 27, 2008 at 7:22 pm

erin

love it!

and i am just enduring some rough work/life balance right now….

February 27, 2008 at 7:50 pm

Jennie

It’s so pretty. YOU are so pretty, but most of all, you look happy. That’s what’s important.

February 27, 2008 at 7:52 pm

itsallabouthallie

OMG I love the magnet!! I am here! I feel ya on being quiet in blog land! Although you seem to get more comments than i do people visiting my blog!!

February 27, 2008 at 8:06 pm

Samantha

That is a totally gorgeous picture. You are beautiful!

February 27, 2008 at 8:14 pm

J P

You guys are freaking beautiful.

I wouldn’t worry about the nightmare too much. I have them sometimes and I’m not even dating anyone.

February 27, 2008 at 8:19 pm

Hi!

I just posted about weddings yesterday and was kinda thinking of you (and, yes, some of those other engaged bloggers… and maybe my just-engaged sister too… as I was writing

February 27, 2008 at 10:01 pm

Hiiiiiii!!!! <–whoa. just noticed that if you type a bunch of i’s followed by !’s… it looks weird. sorry. random thought.

The magnets are a FABULOUS idea.

February 27, 2008 at 10:28 pm

Stacey

The magnet is very cute. Well, if you’re a photogenic person (which clearly you are).

February 28, 2008 at 1:50 am

libby

oh jeez, so YOU’RE the couple that come preset in the frames i buy! hahaha it’s lovely, molly!

February 28, 2008 at 3:27 am

Lara

looks like everyone is still here!

February 28, 2008 at 8:56 am

Beth

I’m glad you went with the magnets. They’re so cute, and are less likely to get thrown out once the invitation has come in the mail. At least, I’d keep it on my refrigerator for years and yars.

February 28, 2008 at 8:56 am

Beth

years and years. Not years and yars. Silly me.

February 28, 2008 at 9:21 am

L B

dealing with a flooded apartment (aka fighting with my landlords who happen to be mold “experts”, second interviews, papers (that I didn’t realize were due until 2 days before….senioritis?!), moving out of the apt to the model home (that’s where I am now), work, and actually…no fun. I need to get on the fun. no more nightmares lady!!!!! stop it right now!

February 28, 2008 at 10:13 am

DevilsHeaven