I’m wearing leggings today. I know what you’re thinking. Molly? In leggings? But Molly hates leggings! Well, I do. I mean, I did. I mean…
I hate leggings as pants. In my opinion, leggings are NOT pants. Unless you are under the age of 12. It probably has to do with flashbacks from fourth grade, because any girl my age went through the leggings/big shirts/scrunch socks look. There may have also been sweatshirts with puff paint and mirrors on them. Oh, the humanity.
So as much as leggings bother me, I have to admit that every time I see a girl in a cute dress with leggings and flats I secretly want to wear them. But then I think, if I wear them, aren’t I going against what I stand for?
(OK, yes, I have a stance on leggings. So what.)
Over the course of the winter I bought some very cute, very summery dresses that I have been longing to wear every time I open my closet. The bright colors looked so inviting and happy in contrast to my dull winter wardrobe that I was so over. So when the weather took a turn for the better and finally brought us sun! and warmth! and happy!, I was determined to bust out the dresses.
Except there was one problem. The dresses leave both my arms and legs pretty bare and even though I have a very casual office, I didn’t think anyone wanted to be exposed to my see through whitey-white legs.
The internal struggle continued. Until Monday, when my friend Ashley walked into my cube and demanded I tell her the truth: did her cute skirt look ridiculous paired with leggings? No, it did not. And so I was convinced.
Later that afternoon with Ashley in tow, I walked into Marshalls (with blinders on because, shoes! Oh, the glorious shoe section!) and bought my very own pair of leggings.
The first night I left them in the car, to think it over. The next day I brought them in the house, but left them in the bag, just in case.
And today I put them on with my kicky and fun kelly green dress. I looked at myself in the mirror and thought, “I can do this. I look cute!”
I walked downstairs and as I rounded the corner, Michael took one look at me and said, “leggings? Really?”
I decided to take that comment as “I’m surprised you’re wearing leggings, given your very vocal opinion on them,” instead of “Wow, you look like an idiot. Please take those off.”
I still don’t know if I love them, but I certainly don’t hate them. At least not anymore.
Except if they’re worn as pants.
Because leggings are NOT pants.



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April 24, 2008 at 9:50 am
DevilsHeaven
The Fug Girls hate leggings too. I however think if they are wore correctly, as you said, NOT AS PANTS, (Lindsey Lohan we’re talking to you) and with kicky skirts and/or dresses, they can be ok.
But I myself just don’t have the courage to do it, I think I’m just too old.
April 24, 2008 at 9:55 am
lfar
I love leggings even though I don’t have any. Because I never wear skirts. Sigh. Or flats. I should go shopping.
April 24, 2008 at 9:58 am
Ashley
and now I too have been outted for wearing leggings even though i have a long history of anti-leggings behavior.
April 24, 2008 at 10:00 am
Each
Legging are NOT pants
and i don’t like wearing pants so they work for me.
course I also wont wear a dress above fingertip length even WITH legging because I am neither 13 or a Who-ore.
April 24, 2008 at 10:01 am
Pam
Here’s my opinion:
Leggings with flats: good.
Leggings with heels (especially pointy-toed stilettos) NOT good. Even the thought of it gives me an 80s flashback.
On a better note, what are the shoes in your “wanting” section today? I LOVE them!
April 24, 2008 at 10:07 am
Melissa
I think they can look cute with the right outfit, but no, they are not pants, and no, not with heels (like Pam said). And I’m glad you translated Michael’s comment the way you did. Sometimes I have do that too.
April 24, 2008 at 10:07 am
gibsondog
That is why I loooove Marshalls! And TJ Maxx. Yes, and.
Leggings… not pants. awesome.
April 24, 2008 at 10:22 am
Peter
I have no idea what it means to wear leggings as pants.
Granted, I am not overly concerned with personally making that fashion faux pas…
April 24, 2008 at 10:32 am
dreamgrrl
I generally like the idea of leggings, but i dont know if i could ever bring myself to wear them. something about my short legs and leggings just doesnt fit right in my mind….
I bet you look adorable!
April 24, 2008 at 10:57 am
aly
I have a yellow dress on and black leggings today. I look like a bumble bee and i love every second of it!
My biggest legging pet peeve, they are not pants, and they are a privilege NOT A RIGHT!
April 24, 2008 at 11:02 am
The Bug
I want pictures!
April 24, 2008 at 11:06 am
Catherine
Just do what I do and call them footless tights/stockings. Semantics are everything!
April 24, 2008 at 11:19 am
Tina
I think this post is so funny. When leggings first started showing up in stores, my sister and I swore we would NEVER wear leggings and then at the end of summer last year, I confessed to her that I wanted a pair and she laughed and said she did too. However, neither have us have taken the plunge yet. What age is it inappropriate to buy/wear leggings? Please advise!!!
April 24, 2008 at 11:20 am
Courtney
Photo please! I want to see!
April 24, 2008 at 11:24 am
becca
I couldn’t agree more on all accounts — they are so NOT PANTS, but they are so… cute. Sigh. Where did you get your kelly green dress?! I want one!
April 24, 2008 at 11:52 am
Lauren
Great post. I could have written this myself (except it wouldn’t have sounded as funny). I’m ashamed to admit that I wore all of those horrible “fashions” you mentioned. I did love me some puffy paint sweatshirts!
April 24, 2008 at 11:53 am
Melanie
Not that I needed another blog for my reader, but I stumbled across yours this morning and have been LOVING reading your posts. I think I dress well, but I can always use a little help in the fashion department and you’ve got some great picks of shoes and dresses to check out. I’ve also enjoyed how you weave together all sorts of topics. I’ll certainly keep reading! Also, I was never big on leggins either, but then one day I put some on and everyone seemed to love the outfit so I break them out from time to time.
April 24, 2008 at 12:07 pm
Rose
I LOOOOOVE the shoes in your wanting section, delish!!
You are so cute cuz I felt the EXACT same way about leggings but bought my first pair a few months ago for the same reasons! What color are yours? I bought dark grey ones (cuz blk is just SO over done). =)
April 24, 2008 at 12:14 pm
Valerie
I share your feelings about leggings. I secretly love them and wish I could pull them off with super cute dresses. Of course I’ve never tried to actually wear them so maybe I should invest in a pair.
And of course you look adorable in them, Michael was just too shocked to say so.
April 24, 2008 at 12:42 pm
littlespoon
Are your legs warm at least? I think that’s all that matters
April 24, 2008 at 12:49 pm
mags
Pictures….pretty please
mags
April 24, 2008 at 1:20 pm
DanceintheRain
Leggings as pants remind me of dance class. Perfectly acceptable there, but, umm, not anywhere else.
Also, I don’t have itsy bitsy skinny thighs to wear them as pants anywhere other than a dance class.
April 24, 2008 at 1:38 pm
Jess
I think you’ve drawn the line effectively. But OMG I totally remember when I was in elementary school–I always matched my shirt to my scrunched socks and my leggings to my headband. God, I was cool.
April 24, 2008 at 1:52 pm
caitlynintherye
I think I have the same opinion on them as you. I bought a pair and have worn them once, when I went out with a SHORT dress on and didnt want to have one of those oops-I-slipped-oh-hello-undergarments events.
Whitey-white? Love!
April 24, 2008 at 1:59 pm
Are You Willing to Change
I’m definitely in your shoes…I want to try leggings, because they look so cute on girls with dresses and leggings, but I just don’t know how I feel about them. I’m a little nervous about giving it a shot. It might take me some more time before I bite the bullet.
April 24, 2008 at 2:05 pm
libby
i love the IDEA of leggings….but everytime i put them on i start feeling like the shirt i’ve paired it with isn’t long enough to cover my butt and then i feel awkward because who wants to walk around with their butt all but exposed save for some thin fabric.
i need to get some cute dresses.
April 24, 2008 at 2:35 pm
poodlegoose
I have that same guilty pleasure (of seeing younger girls with cute leggings and flats and secretly wanting to wear them too). Picture?
I have a hard time justifying my purchases of leggings these days, but I still have a few pairs that were too cute to pass up. I can’t ever do the long shirt/legging duo, so they’re usually just with skirts.
April 24, 2008 at 2:56 pm
Michelle & the City
so i’m confused as to what you mean by “leggings”
are we talking panty hose? or those tight 3/4 length short pants? this whole topic utterly baffles me. i did see a girl on deal or no deal last night though that was wearing a really cute pink dress with what i think were black leggings underneath.
p.s. the green floral shoes from your wanting section? what brand are they? i’m dying to get them! unless they’re $300 or something…
April 24, 2008 at 3:57 pm
Sandy
I’m totally with you on this post.
I’ve been anti-leggings all along, but I’m so tempted to try ‘em out. I bought some cute new flats that I bet would look really cute with them. Maybe I’ll try it out soon!
But I agree with mags, picture please!?
April 24, 2008 at 4:11 pm
Laurie
Hey, as long as you aren’t pulling a Lohan!
April 24, 2008 at 4:17 pm
Ashley
I want to see a pic too! Please.
April 24, 2008 at 4:19 pm
Dutchess of Kickball
I’ve been very wary about tights. I’m a tad scared.
April 24, 2008 at 4:20 pm
brookem
laurie beat me to the punch- i was totally thinking the “leggings as pants” combo = lindsey. and that look? sucks. oof.
but your combo sounds good! i bust that out from time to time, for the same reasons…. the warm(ish) weather slash the have-yet-to-see-the-sun gams of mine.
April 24, 2008 at 4:26 pm
cass
This is potentially the most hilarious thing I’ve read all day. I think that you are 100% correct on all fronts and I share your opinion. And like you, have recently changed my stance on leggings to include only with use with skirts and dresses. I can’t believe that you used the word puff paint.
My mother really should have kept some of the crap that I wore because I bedazzled, put jewels and mirrors on and did swirly things with puff paint that should only be done when cracked out. I must find picture.
April 24, 2008 at 4:26 pm
hckelley
I was thinking about leggings today too! I don’t own any but someone in our office was wearing them and I thought….if she can pull them off, why can’t I? so… I am again considering…
April 24, 2008 at 4:30 pm
dreamgrrl
btw – its 4:28 and your post JUST appeared! wtf!!!
April 24, 2008 at 4:30 pm
Caz
I enjoy leggings with dresses/skirts as long as they’re not worn as pants. I also generally abide by the leggings with flats only rule.
I do admit however to having worn a very short tube-top-bubble-hem-dress-shirt-thing (ie you wouldn’t have worn it without leggings or skinny jeans) with leggings and heels. But I may have seriously been channling my inner ’80s diva and now thinking back (while sober) have realized what a silly fashion choice it was.
April 24, 2008 at 4:38 pm
julybug
Okay, I wear leggings and not as pants and have never thought people had issues wearing them. So weird. Whatever, I’m pale and always pale so I think I’m doing people a service.
April 24, 2008 at 4:49 pm
katelin
I was so against leggings too, but now I’m pretty obsessed with wearing them with dresses. I never wear them as pants, because I agree, they are not pants.
April 24, 2008 at 4:57 pm
Lacey Bean
My bf HATES leggings with dresses/skirts so I may have to sneak them past him. But I haven’t worn them yet either.. trying to work up the nerve!
April 24, 2008 at 5:04 pm
tia
i actually like leggings very much.
i wear them only under dresses, of course, but i find that you can get away with much shorter dresses than if you WEREN’T wearing them.
i know they’re not pants. of course. but they’re like non-pants-pants. or something.
April 24, 2008 at 5:46 pm
Wickedly Scarlett
I guess the thing I don’t understand about leggings with dresses is why would you not just wear tights? I’m sure you look super adorable today, but I just cannot endorse the legging trend. A kelly green dress though? That sounds beautiful!!
April 24, 2008 at 6:51 pm
La
Molls, it is 6:50 PM and your post JUST showed up in my google reader. What the hell?! Just wanted to tell you.
I also want your “want” shoes today.
April 24, 2008 at 6:55 pm
heatherdc
haha I have a stance on leggings too. They are NOT PANTS!! But alas, I bought a pair at Target a while ago and ooh they do look cute with little dresses. what can ya do
April 24, 2008 at 9:16 pm
prettikat
Ok I’m confused. Leggings as pants? Like tuck your shirt into your leggings and .. ewww .. never mind.
I recently started wearing these 120 denier pantyhose (or leggings?) with these short-ish dresses I have. They look cute. I’m hitting 30 soon and don’t quite care.
And pics! We need to see the pictures.
April 25, 2008 at 12:06 am
Alison
I think leggings are super cute with tunics or sweater dresses! Post some pics of you sporting the leggins
April 25, 2008 at 12:24 am
Clueless Cat
I’ll bet you looked way cute.
I’m a big fan of leggings w/dresses or skirts…but also defo not as pants, a la lohan. (May be cute with shirtdresses, though, but not actual SHIRTS…unless it’s a man’s shirt and long enough to hit mid-thigh, at least.)
April 25, 2008 at 7:17 am
Ashley
Like you, I swore up and down that I would never ever wear leggings again after my overabuse of them during the 80s (along with the puff paint and mirror shirts hah) But then I bought a pair and um love them. JUSTTTTT with skirts and dresses. Will never ever wear them as pants.
I’m with prettikat…we need evidence of this!
Have a great weekend!
April 25, 2008 at 8:43 am
Princesstaj
I still haven’t been able to jump on the legging train – They’re just not the same without the scrunch socks, and puffy paint sweatshirts.
April 25, 2008 at 9:57 am
A Lil' Irish Lass
I am similarly conflicted when it comes to leggings. I refuse to wear them, but am secretly jealous of all the cute hipsters who pull off the most darling outfits thanks to their leggings. Conundrum.
April 25, 2008 at 9:58 am
A Lil' Irish Lass
Did I really just say “darling?” That’s it. No leggings for me. I’m apparently 68 years old.
May 2, 2008 at 10:31 am
Froggy
MWA-hahaha! Welcome to the dark side….
Hey,
- they keep your legs warm;
- for those of us in mass-transit run cities, they allow us to postpone that gross bare-leg-to-subway-seat feeling for a few more months;
- they prevent us from pulling a Britney or a Lindsay if we fall in love with a dress that is maybe just a liiiiittle too short to be decent without them; and
- they are ridiculously comfy.
These are all the things I told myself when I finally caved earlier this year and started wearing them, and now? Now I am in love…
September 16, 2008 at 10:38 am
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