It’s a long one!
Michelle asks:
This may not be your typical, “What shoes should I wear with this dress” question, but hopefully you can still help me! I have really narrow feet. Like, really. I love wearing heels, but I always have the same issue. My foot sinks to the front of the shoe when I walk and the heel continuously slips off the back. At first I thought I was buying a size too big for my foot, but I’ve tried everything from a 6.5 to an 8! I don’t want to give up my heels (I would have a lot of hemming to do!), so is there a particular style you would suggest that would help with this problem?
Thanks Shoeru you’re the best!
I love this question! You do not have to give up your love of heels, not at all! But you will have to come to terms with the fact that most of your shoe shopping will have to be done online. Which isn’t such a bad thing, what with lots of sites offering free shipping both ways. And who doesn’t love getting a package in the mail?
My suggestion would be to check out sites like Zappos.com and MarylandSquare.com. Both sites make it super easy to search for shoes by width. This page on Zappos lets you chose by type of shoe (dress, casual, etc.) and then your size. I would recommend going into a high-end shoe store (like Nordstrom) and having your foot professionally measured so you know where you fall in the narrow scale (A to 4A).
When all else fails, doctor them up. Just like clothes, sometimes for a perfect fit a shoe needs to be tailored. You can do this with inserts of all kinds. My favorite come from Foot Petals. You can find anything from heel inserts to prevent slipping, toe pads to prevent sliding, strips to prevent blisters and so much more.
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Clink (no, she’s not blogging again) wants to know:
Dear Almighty Blonde Goddess/Shoeru,
First of all, HI! I miss you. I really wish you were at my bachelorette this past weekend so we could’ve danced, laid out in the sun and made drunk kissy faces at the camera. That said, I am definitely looking forward to our proposed beach weekend in June because I just adore you.
Moving along, as you know I have a wedding coming up in, like, eleven weeks. Which feels absolutely surreal/terrifying/exciting, all at the same time. And it’s about that time that my seven bridesmaids are starting to chirp about what they’ll be wearing on their feet (they are my friends, after all, and thus they care very much about their feet looking hot).
Here are the dresses:

My sister and my junior bridesmaid will be wearing the color combination in the photo. The rest of the girls will be wearing the opposite: chocolate brown with champagne sashes.
As for shoes, my first thought was brown or champagne strappy sandals. But the more I peruse zappos.com and endless.com, the more I hate all of their brown and champagne-colored sandals. So then I started thinking about leopard print peep-toes or something similar. It’s a night wedding in Manhattan (as you know; you will be there), so leopard print shoes would look totally sexy. At least that’s how I feel. Plus, since the dresses are tea-length, the shoes will have center stage and therefore I want them to be gorgeous.
Of course, I’d love your expert opinion. Are there cute brown and champagne shoes out there? Any leopard print suggestions? Have any other ideas?
Ok, now I can go back to talking to you on gchat.
xo,
The girl formerly known as Clink
I’m with you on the champagne-colored shoes. It’s a toughie. Most searches bring you to a shocking gold or a slightly cheap looking rose gold, neither of which is what you’re going for. However, if you move away from the idea of strappy, there’s actually some cute options.
I’m kidding. But pretty shoes, no?

Sergio Rossi, $540.
I think these shoes are stunning and perfect for making an impact.

Luxious by Nine West, $89.
I happen to know for a fact that these cute little ruffles would tie in nicely with a detail on somebody’s dress…

Jessica Bennett Hood, $75.98.
The rich brown would look fantastic with the dresses and the chunkier heel works for maximum wear time.

Katelyn by RSVP, $65.
A combination of BOTH your colors!

Headliner by Naughty Monkey, $79.
As for a leopard print, aside from your grandmother having a heart attack (you know she would, Clinky!), I love the idea. My only concern is that you find the RIGHT leopard print. If not done right or in the correct colors, animal print has a tendency to lean towards the cheesy side. If leopard is your ultimate decision, I would suggest trying on a few pairs WITH the dress to get the right look.
Some of my favorites include:
Love how the spots are close enough to give the appearance of a brown shoe, while also continuing all the way down the heel.

All Sexy Shoes, $46.
The brown platform adds to comfort and ties in nicely with your colors.

Willa by Luchiny, $66.49.
And for a kick, why not go with a little sparkle?

Gala pumps by Coloriffics, $55.95.
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May 15, 2008 at 10:22 am
Michelle & the City
that foot petals site is genius! i am excited to try some of their products. i had no idea they actually made something to stop your feet from sliding forward. yay!
and for clink - i am in LOVE with the Headliner pair. or maybe i’m just in love with the metallic pink insides. lol
May 15, 2008 at 10:48 am
Rose
For Clink (formally known as), I like option 2 or 3 (very pretty)! I think I’m leaning towards the Jessica Bennett Hood pair. Not sure about leopard print though… if you go with non-leopard, your bridesmaids can wear the shoes again for another event. I find leopard print hard to match unless you are wearing solid colors. Go Molly! Great advice!
May 15, 2008 at 10:51 am
gibsondog
AHA! You see, this is why you are the Shoeru!
The Naughty Monkey makes pretty neat designs! Oooo and those shoes by Jessica Bennet are beautiful! So very delicate and pretty!
May 15, 2008 at 10:55 am
Clink
I knew you would come to the rescue! I LOVE the Jessica Bennett shoes, the All Sexy shoes, the RSVP shoes and the Coloriffics shoes. I’m going to order a pair of each for the girls to try on at their first fitting. I may even order a few pairs for myself.
*Bows down to the Shoeru*
May 15, 2008 at 10:56 am
Clink
And the Sergio Rossi shoes? I don’t think there is a more ‘me’ shoe in the history of shoes. And, as you know, SOMEONE hasn’t gotten her own wedding-day shoes yet…
May 15, 2008 at 11:05 am
littlespoon
Ooh I love the Leopard Print idea, so different!
May 15, 2008 at 11:06 am
DevilsHeaven
Hey Clink! 11 weeks! How exciting! I love the Coloriffics, they’re flashy without being over the top. And oh to have the money to get those Sergio Rossi……*sad shoe sigh*
And how can you not love the Naughty Monkey if not for the name alone? I’ll take them all!
I and another bride in my office are going shopping today for our shoes, wish us luck!!!
May 15, 2008 at 11:21 am
pinkhighheels
I love the Naughty Monkey shoe.. so much fun! And thanks for the info about the foot petals site. My foot constantly slides forward also.
May 15, 2008 at 12:05 pm
Elizabeth
I LOVE the loopard print idea! I have a pair very similar to the All Sexy Shoes pair, and I wear them about once a week with a lot of different things, so hopefully your girls could get more use out of them if they love leopard print like I do!
If you’re still wanting choco brown, I got this pair from JCPenney and they are very comfortable and very affordable at $30 on sale.
http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?DeptID=53327&CatID=53504&GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=1355e20&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CmCatId=53327|53328|53338|53504
May 15, 2008 at 12:20 pm
jennie
Dear Shoeru,
Can I ask a shoe question here in the comments? I hope one day you will address the plight of the taller woman. I’m 5′10”, and I read your site a lot, and and I am mostly just plagued with jealousy about all the fabulous shoes you wear! I really love the look of high heels and of course they do wonders for your legs and all that. I have spent most of my years between sophomore year of high school and now wishing I were four inches shorter so I could wear high heels every day.
I know it’s easy to say I should just suck it up and wear’em, but when I do I usually spend the night (or day) feeling self-conscious and huge, towering over my more petite friends, and fending off comments from well-meaning people who say “Oh my God, you’re so TALL!” It’s hard to feel attractive when you simultaneously feel decidedly un-dainty and rather giant-esque. It’s just easier to wear flats.
That said, my boyfriend and I are going to a wedding in about a month and I’m going to wear a pretty form-fitting black dress–think pencil skirt with a built-in tank top. I love the dress, but it just looks weird to wear it without heels. Any suggestions for flat shoes that wouldn’t look totally bizarre with a dress like this one: http://www.edressme.com/omd60191m-bl.html
Thanks!
Jennie
May 15, 2008 at 1:35 pm
DG
LOVE LOVE and LOVE. Oh, and LOVE.
May 15, 2008 at 1:43 pm
Laura
Oh it is good to hear Clink’s voice again, even if just asking you questions! : )
I love your show advice and think our closets of shoes would be good friends.
May 15, 2008 at 1:57 pm
JenBun
HI CLINK!!!
And Hi, Molls!
I like oh, um, EVERY SINGLE shoe you just showed up there! So now I am thinking of all the weddings/events I have coming up the rest of the year and thinking what I could wear with champagne, chocolate brown, and leopard-print shoes… I want them ALL!
May 15, 2008 at 2:43 pm
Anna
You outdid yourself on this one, Shoeru–nice work!
P.S. i’m still in a dither about my reunion shoes, but will send photos when I figure it all out, found a fun pair of peep-toe flats that I think will be the weekend workhorses, plus a few others for when I am not tramping around on wet grass!
May 15, 2008 at 4:38 pm
alyndabear
I think I totally need to ask the Shoeru a question at some point . . .