I lost my job today. Just about two hours ago, actually.
I’m currently sitting on my couch with a glass of wine going through what I assume are the stages you go through when one gets laid off.
Anger.
Sadness.
Paranoia.
Wine. More wine. Would like some more wine.
Acceptance.
OK, I haven’t reached acceptance yet. As a matter of fact I’m in pretty bad shape. I’m faced with finding a job in the worst economy our country as seen in a very long time.
And that scares the crap out of me.
But maybe this is an opportunity to do something I really love to do. Or at least something I really like to do.
In the meantime, I’ll take a week, drink some wine, have a good cry fest, revamp my resume and hope to God someone wants to hire me.
Any of you looking for a freelancer? I can write my ass off.
I’m going to get some more wine in the meantime.
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December 1, 2008 at 3:58 pm
stressedspelledbackwards
Gosh that’s so sad to hear. After all the happy times you’ve had the past few weeks, too.
Good luck, hugs ❤
December 1, 2008 at 3:59 pm
Sarah
Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry for you. It’s a tough time right now….Good luck.
December 1, 2008 at 3:59 pm
littlespoon
Oh sweetie, I’m so sorry. I know you’ll find something soon.
December 1, 2008 at 4:00 pm
Coconut
Wow, happy holidays! I’m sorry, that really sucks. At least it gives you a little down time.
December 1, 2008 at 4:01 pm
erin
i’m so sorry!
good luck….i will be thinking of you.
December 1, 2008 at 4:01 pm
Belle
Oh sweets, I’m sorry! That sucks. I’m sending good vibes your way!
December 1, 2008 at 4:01 pm
Kate
Oh no!!! I am so sorry to hear that. Take care and focus on the many, many, many positives.
December 1, 2008 at 4:02 pm
Abbie
Oh my goodness! I am so sorry to hear that! I went through the same thing the day before Thanksgiving last year (minus the economy part). I temped for a few months, but man it was hard. GOOD LUCK!!
December 1, 2008 at 4:02 pm
Nic
Oh my gosh, I am SO sorry! (((((big hugs)))))
December 1, 2008 at 4:03 pm
Each
excuse my french Molly’s mom, but fuck…
December 1, 2008 at 4:04 pm
atout
oh molly i’m sorry. i’m close to being in the same boat and i’m scared shitless. but the bright side is that it gives you time for reevaluation and hugging that new husband of yours. i’ll pray that something will come your way!
December 1, 2008 at 4:04 pm
Kate
Oh no!!! I’m soooo sorry Molly! That’s terrible!
December 1, 2008 at 4:05 pm
girlrunningaround
Oh, I’m so sorry to hear that. Things are tough right now, but someone as talented as you will surely stand out among the crowd. Stay positive!
December 1, 2008 at 4:05 pm
Mrs.S
Oh Molly I am so sorry. Cyber hugs to you!
December 1, 2008 at 4:05 pm
Lacey Bean
Oh man I am so sorry.
December 1, 2008 at 4:07 pm
lily
I’m so sorry to hear that! DEFINITELY do not even think about your resume until today has passed. Keep up with that wine, take a personal day, and then get back on it tomorrow instead. What line of work are you in? (I’m a newish blog reader of yours, so if you’ve said so… I’ve missed it…) I like your idea of taking the chance to pursue something you really love while you have the time to focus on that. Good luck!
December 1, 2008 at 4:08 pm
Kateastrophe
Yikes. That is my biggest fear right now.
Hang in there. You’re very talented and I’m sure you’ll find something very soon.
Hugs and squeezes.
December 1, 2008 at 4:08 pm
MoxieMamaKC
I’m so sorry to hear this! My husband’s company just did a big lay-off this morning and while he wasn’t let go, it’s so scary to be without a job. I don’t know what we would do if he lost his job. I’ll send happy, good thoughts your way! Hang in there!
December 1, 2008 at 4:09 pm
Lisa
I am SO sorry! My heart goes out to you, and unfortunately it looks like those of us with jobs are getting closer to being in the minority.
December 1, 2008 at 4:11 pm
notsojenny
ugh, that blows. sorry to hear about that.
this is why i’m convinced it’s the best time to get pregnant, companies are so worried about lawsuits that it at least buys you 9 mos… and things have to be headed up by then, right? gosh i hope so.
i hope you find something quickly… at least now you have time to do all your post wedding chores (name change, thank yous, etc, etc)
December 1, 2008 at 4:12 pm
somewhat voluble
My husband was laid off a couple weeks ago and has yet to find a job… It’s so difficult in times like these. I hope you find something soon.
December 1, 2008 at 4:13 pm
Becky
I’m so sorry, Molly. That totally sucks. I think you have the right plan, though – drink lots of wine today/tonight and get to work later, after you’ve had time to process. My thoughts are with you!
December 1, 2008 at 4:14 pm
Courtney
Oh no! Enjoy some time off first before finding your next gig!!
December 1, 2008 at 4:15 pm
packupthemoon
I’m so sorry Molly! Don’t worry – in times of recession, companies only hire superstars like yourself. Everything will be all right. 🙂
You could always start your own business too, y’know. But this blogging stardom to good use.
December 1, 2008 at 4:16 pm
A Lil' Irish Lass
Oh no! I’m so sorry to hear that!
Play the How Could This Be Worse Game:
How could this be worse?
You could have a baby (or three) to support.
How could this be worse?
You could be single and not be able to look to your kick-ass new husband for support.
How could this be worse?
You could have lost your job during Prohibition and then you’d be up Shit’s Creek when it comes to the wine.
Think about it.
December 1, 2008 at 4:21 pm
Beth
Oh, I’m so sorry. I (and a lot of other people) am still waiting to hear about my future… the layoffs here are happening soon.
hugs hugs virtual hugs.
December 1, 2008 at 4:22 pm
Mandy
Oh no! I am sorry! I hope you find something soon!
December 1, 2008 at 4:23 pm
Britt
Ugh! How awful 😦 I hope you find something fabulous that you love!
December 1, 2008 at 4:25 pm
Allison
Oh no, Molly! So sad to hear that. I’m sure you will be right back on your feet in no time… keep us updated. As soon as your week of vacay is over, get right on the resume updating and I know you’ll feel better. I’ll be thinking of ya!
December 1, 2008 at 4:25 pm
Elizabeth
Guess I should have stopped by here before texting & emailing you like a maniac. Sorry, hun…. the offer will remain open: wine, dogs, bad daytime tv. Mi couch es su couch.
December 1, 2008 at 4:29 pm
Rahat
Sorry to hear about losing your job. You just have to believe that everything happens for a reason and that it’s a good reason. One door closes and another opens.
December 1, 2008 at 4:30 pm
Judy
Oh no! That’s not a good way to start the week! They say everything happens for a reason, I’m convinced things will be just fine! ((HUGS))
December 1, 2008 at 4:30 pm
Typographysnob
I absolutely know what you are going through. I was laid off October 14th of this year and I still don’t have a job.
You’re not the only one. In fact, it’s so bad that the government just passed something extending unemployment from 6 months to 9. Yeah, definitely apply for unemployment, it will help.
I know what a struggle this is and will be. If you ever need to talk about it, feel free to email me. I can give you the advice of someone who is a month and a half ahead of you. 🙂
December 1, 2008 at 4:31 pm
Darci
Oh Molly, I am so profoundly sorry. I agree with everyone else – drink all the wine you want tonight and then figure the rest out in the morning. You have talent practically oozing out of you, I know you’ll wind up better off. Hang in there!
December 1, 2008 at 4:34 pm
chasingparadise
I’m so sorry to hear this, Molly. But I think you have the right idea — take some time to process and cry about it, be stressed about it, then after you’ve got some better perspective, go to work looking for a job. I have no doubt that you’ll find something. It may take a while, but don’t lose hope. File for unemployment, try to do some freelance writing, and maybe get a temp job if you are hard up for money. Michael will be your biggest source of emotional support, so use it up when you need it!
Lots of positive thoughts your way…
December 1, 2008 at 4:35 pm
Sara Joy
Oh Molly, I’m so sorry! I could offer a thousand cliches and a bunch of advice but I doubt it would mean very much. However, I will say the wine is a fabulous idea, and I have confidence in you. Likely all of us fans have more confidence in you than you have in yourself right now – but trust us, it is well placed. 🙂
December 1, 2008 at 4:35 pm
Laurie
I am so sorry! You are so talented – so I know you’ll get back out there.
I feel for you though – enjoy that wine and let your husband take care of you.
Deep breaths!
December 1, 2008 at 4:40 pm
Sara
Oh honey… Drinks and hugs? My treat….
December 1, 2008 at 4:44 pm
La Petite Chic
Oh Molly, I am so, so sorry to hear this. Sending happy job vibes your way…
December 1, 2008 at 4:45 pm
Viviane
Oh, I’m so sorry to hear that! You know, I am actually for once glad I am not yet done with school, because I’d be so worried about having to find my first job (with no previous experience other than internships) right now. I hope you will find a new job soon!
December 1, 2008 at 4:45 pm
Barb
I am so sorry to hear that! I know it must be so incredibly scary especially at this time right now…. I feel terrible for you. While there is nothing that I can say to make you feel any better…just know that things might happen for a reason yet to be determined… Wine is good…as well as having a great soulmate to lean on in times like this… You are a fabulous writer and will find that next door to walk through and make your own
December 1, 2008 at 4:45 pm
A
Chin up, girlie. I’m so sorry to hear about your job – but quite certain that you’ll land on your feet.
December 1, 2008 at 4:45 pm
pie
oh Molls, that is awful. I am so sorry. If you are willing to relocate I can definitely help you out. Fuck (sorry Mollys mom) that really really sucks.
December 1, 2008 at 4:47 pm
Lori
That’s horrible, I am so sorry to hear that. Ugh.
December 1, 2008 at 4:49 pm
mags
Oh Molly, I’m sooo sorry. I’m sending good thoughts your way!
December 1, 2008 at 4:51 pm
brookem
I’m so sorry…
December 1, 2008 at 4:58 pm
itsallabouthallie
UGH that sucks! I am sorry Molly!!
December 1, 2008 at 5:03 pm
JenBun
Start writing, woman.
You are an amazing writer, and I know you’ve wanted to write a book… Now you have time.
I’m so sorry, sweets! I wish you all the best…
But seriously, write a book, K?
xoxox
♥
🙂
December 1, 2008 at 5:05 pm
Heidi
oh no 😦 😦 I’m so sorry to hear that 😦 It’s always ten gazillion times worse on a monday too (i’ve been there…) ❤ ❤
December 1, 2008 at 5:05 pm
Hazel
how awful. i’m so sorry!
best of luck!
December 1, 2008 at 5:08 pm
bing
Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. Definitely indulge in the wine and take some time to collect your thoughts before you start looking for a new job. Good luck! I’ve got my fingers crossed for you!
December 1, 2008 at 5:13 pm
jessica@budgetsavvybride
I am so sorry you’re going through that. It seems to be happening all around… so sad and so hard to deal with. Best of luck finding something new- sending good wishes and thoughts your way.
December 1, 2008 at 5:20 pm
DevilsHeaven
OMG. I’m with Each, FUCK! Sorry, but that is exactly how I feel for you. We are constantly on edge because F works in the Automotive industry.
I hope you find something soon.
XXXXdigital hugsXXXX
December 1, 2008 at 5:23 pm
june
put some ads on your blog? 😛
but yeah, that really sucks. i hope you find a job soon! i have to graduate in this economy too… everything sucks.
December 1, 2008 at 5:29 pm
Amanda
Oh man, copious amounts of alcohol are needed. And brownies… do you want me to fedex some brownies for you?! I can do it, this is definitely a 911 situation.
December 1, 2008 at 5:42 pm
Laura
I’m sorry Miss Molly! That is horrible.
I promise you will turn it around. You’re that type of girl. This will work out for the best.
Hug!
December 1, 2008 at 5:43 pm
Momma, The Casual Perfectionist
I’m so sorry to hear this!! Good luck!!
December 1, 2008 at 5:46 pm
Dutchess of Kickball
Oh no, Molly. I am so sorry to hear that. Luckily you are a smart, motivated woman. You will bounce back!
December 1, 2008 at 5:49 pm
Amber
Oh Molly, sorry to hear that – my mum is currently waiting to find out if she’s being laid off too: it seems to be happening to so many people right now 😦 Will keep an eye out for any freelance work….
December 1, 2008 at 5:58 pm
mal
Ugh, so sorry you have to go through this.
My company just announced salary cuts today. What a happy Monday!
You’ll be ok though, just try to stay positive. You can do the job search thing and in the meantime try to enjoy the free time a little!
December 1, 2008 at 6:08 pm
Joy
TOTALLY SUCKS! I think you deserve to stay in bed and play with Kodiak for at least three days before you start any new projects! And, then, whatever you do will work out: I just know it.
This just in: Wine is on sale at your local grocery store! Go, darling, go!
December 1, 2008 at 6:14 pm
karijo09
Wow. I’m sorry! I’m sure someone will take you.
December 1, 2008 at 6:15 pm
Jennie
Oh, Molly! I’m so sorry. You have a lot to offer, so I know it’s not a matter of you finding something – it’s just a matter of when. I hope it’s sooner rather than later.
December 1, 2008 at 6:23 pm
Dee
When one door closes a window open….
So grab your wine and look for the window:-)
You are awesome and someone will be lucky to have you on their team.
December 1, 2008 at 6:24 pm
Rachel
I’m so sorry to hear that! Everyday Grant and I are worried that this may happen to us. It hasn’t so far, but definitely keep your head up. It’s a tough time right now. I’ll be thinking of you!
December 1, 2008 at 6:43 pm
Jenna
I’m so sorry for you. I know that my husbands company is going to do everything they can to keep everyone on, but it’s something we definitely know could be in our future. I agree with those who have said to get writing. I think you really have potential as a serious writer!
December 1, 2008 at 6:43 pm
Rebekah at EAD
Erf. http://www.elance.com It’s not easy, but you might be able to find something on there. Sending positive thoughts your way.
December 1, 2008 at 6:45 pm
Ami
i’m so sorry molly. there’s nothing any of us can say, other than that we’re thinking about you and know that you’re going to get through this – we are all here to listen!
December 1, 2008 at 6:49 pm
the taskmaster
I am so sorry Molly!
Take some time and go through the stages of grief (wine always helps!).
December 1, 2008 at 7:19 pm
jessica
This is rotten news. I’m sorry, Molly. I hope an even bigger and better opportunity comes your way…very soon!
December 1, 2008 at 7:20 pm
Paula
Oh Molly, that is major suckage!!!
I really don’t want to say “it could be worse” or blah blah blah ad nauseum because i’m sure you REALLY don’t need that. But I’m sure there is something better out there for you. You seem like a far more positive person than I am, so I’m sure you’ll grab the opportunity with both hands to make a positive out of this.
In the meantime, wine is ALWAYS a good solution.
xxx
December 1, 2008 at 7:24 pm
Jennie
oh noes. that is truly terrible. i’m shocked. i can only imagine how you feel. good luck with the job hunt. you will find something amazing, i am sure.
December 1, 2008 at 7:42 pm
flips2004
It’s Darcie – I’ve officially created a login so don’t get confused. =)
Ummmmm… martinis – lots of them – Friday… my treat. I love you, call me if you need anything.
December 1, 2008 at 7:49 pm
kristen
Sorry to hear you got laid off. I too was recently laid off (the day before Thanksgiving) from a job I hated. I’m trying too see the bright side. Like you said, this could be an opportunity to do something else… something you might actually love. In the meantime, I’ll be drinking bottle after bottle of wine as well.
December 1, 2008 at 8:01 pm
JC
Hey –
It’s easy for me to say it’ll be ok as I keep missing my own daggers here at my job.
But with that said….I hope that you’re able to take the time to plot your next course that works for you.
🙂
And – I LOVE the foto of you on the luggage carrier!
December 1, 2008 at 8:03 pm
Johanna
Crap… I’m so sorry to hear that. The upside is you rock. All the guys want to be with you, all the girls want to be you, and all of the PR firms are dying to have you on their team. In the meantime, enjoy this little bit of time off and do the things you can’t do when a job is bogging you down.
December 1, 2008 at 8:15 pm
Mike
Ok, you know how i feel about this…and what I would do to help — particularly the anger phase. You’ve come an incredibly long way since writing about a box of chocolates. I’m not worried about you. Just sayin’.
December 1, 2008 at 8:36 pm
Anna
Oh Molly.
I am so sorry.
You know we’ll feed you any freelance work we can, or I will if I have a job after this week.
But.
TheseLittleMoments.com has been a long time coming, and if you so choose, advertisers would be glad to pay you to advertise on your site.
Maybe you and Clink need to start a co-blog.
Seriously.
December 1, 2008 at 8:43 pm
Kelly
Ugh Molly, that totally sucks. So sorry this had to happen to you right as you’re starting your married life with Michael.
The wine sounds like a good idea though… keep that coming 🙂
December 1, 2008 at 9:00 pm
rachelkate
Molly, I’m so sorry. At least no one can accuse you of being so shiny and happy all the time, though, right? Sorry, that’s not much of a positive. From someone who’s been on the job market for going on four months now, it’s rough out there. The best advice I have is to try to keep busy (I got a new puppy to train) and positive (“what a fun vacation this is!”). And Anna is right–we won’t mind a few ads on your site; you certainly have the readership to support them. Or you could be a totally awesome wedding planner!
I’ll have an extra glass of wine for both our job searches tonight.
December 1, 2008 at 9:01 pm
Jules
aw, bummer 😛 but on the brighter side, you’re clearly a talented writer, exactly the kind of person companies want to hire in dire times. hang in there! things will fall into place for you.
December 1, 2008 at 9:26 pm
Nicole
This seems to be a trend lately…2 of my friends just got laid off… they had no clue it was coming…BUT…its actually making them re-evaluate their goals..and the one is actually changing careers… So once your done with your wine..Get back out there girl!!!…
December 1, 2008 at 9:52 pm
Tootie
I’m SOOO sorry!! That just plain sucks.
But, I have a feeling that good things are around the corner for you. You are an awesome writer, so keep your chin up!
December 1, 2008 at 10:14 pm
s
i’m sorry to hear the news, but i’m sure you will land on the other side of this better off than before.
p.s. think book deal. go chase whatever dreams you have!
p.p.s wine is always good.
December 1, 2008 at 10:14 pm
Nathan Nielsen
I am in this boat too. Good luck on your journey to find a new job.
December 1, 2008 at 10:15 pm
Jess
I was laid off three weeks ago, I was completely blindsided by it just like you.
I took an hour to cry, polished off my resume and I’ve been applying like mad ever since. I have quite a few prospects and I’m sure you’ll be the same!
I hope it gets better for you and if you need to vent/chat/etc. shoot me an e-mail! *hugs* for you!
December 1, 2008 at 10:39 pm
Jessica
Gah! I’m so sorry Molly 😦
Wine is a good idea… and I wouldn’t mind seeing ads on the site either!
December 1, 2008 at 10:42 pm
Michelle & the City
oh molly that sucks! i am so sorry to hear that.
but you’re talented and you will pull through this. you know where to find me if you need to vent!
xo
December 1, 2008 at 10:54 pm
ccr in MA
How rotten! Right before Christmas, too. My empathies (and my brother’s, unfortunately). Best of luck in ending up happier … it can happen! It will happen!
December 1, 2008 at 11:38 pm
onebigholiday
Omg, i am so sorry. I know the last thing I wanted to hear was advice from someone but you can get through this. It will be hard and you will doubt yourself but you can do it.
December 2, 2008 at 12:01 am
KT
Oh no! I’m so sorry to hear that.
December 2, 2008 at 12:24 am
caitlyn
How is that even possible- do those people know who you are?
Can I just point out that I’m the 90th commentor on here- not reader- and that advertisers should be pushing for you? I look forward to sneaking moments at work to read this blog. shoe and wine advertisements would go perfectly (I promise to click).
Also, I’ll see if I’ve any contacts up there. My co doesn’t exactly do freelance but I know plenty of people up your way.
December 2, 2008 at 12:58 am
tia
i am so sorry.
i think, though, that when one door closes, another opens. so that means you’re onto bigger and better things.
December 2, 2008 at 1:04 am
emmaelizabeth
wow. can I send you some wine? that really sucks about the job. you’ll find something in no time with all these well wishes! (((hugs)))
December 2, 2008 at 2:30 am
bigskygirl
awh, molls. i’m sorry!! that completely STINKS. sending good job hunting vibes and lots of hugs your way!
December 2, 2008 at 4:49 am
prinny
Uh, I’m so sorry! Totally stinks, especially now. But I agree with what some previous comments said, while you job-hunt, start thinking about that book that you’ve always wanted to write. Something like this happened to my cousing (right before x-mas, too), and she somehow, over a couple years, managed to turn it into a fabulous career as a freelance journalist.
December 2, 2008 at 5:51 am
Cara
I’ve only just stumbled across your blog, but I just wanted to let you know I’m thinking of you. Look after yourself.
December 2, 2008 at 6:42 am
Charl
Ugh. Stupid economy.
Hang in there. Things always work out okay.
December 2, 2008 at 7:36 am
The Real OG
I’m sorry to hear about your job, that is awful news. I just came across your blog, but I guess it was not a good day to pick. If it is of any solace to you, it’s really a product of the times, and you are definitely not alone.
December 2, 2008 at 7:36 am
The Bug
My fiance got laid off at the end of October and has been freelancing ever since. We are lucky that we live near DC and there is a lot of freelance work for him. Unfortunately, we may have to speed up the marriage thing to take care of his insurance. Justice of the Peace? HERE WE COME!
December 2, 2008 at 8:24 am
Meg
Molly,
What a terrible day– I’ve been there. Enjoy the wine, take a day (or two) to unwind, then lay out your options.
If I lived closer I would totally take you out for a drink/dinner.
Hugs.
-Meg
December 2, 2008 at 9:28 am
Julienne Jiggs
I read this and totally felt my whole stomach sink. I don’t know what else to say but FUCK, this sucks and I’m so sorry. But you are a GREAT writer, otherwise you wouldn’t have 100 comments here. Take time to readjust and figure out what you want for yourself. This could be your big chance.
December 2, 2008 at 9:58 am
your mom
well – it’s one of many of those unpredictable things that life throws you. and in the scheme of things on a 1-10 for someone of your age, education and position, it’s probably about a 5. so now you can put “i was laid off” into your personal data bank of experiences. it doesn’t seem like it now, but as time goes on this past job will end up being a mere blip on your life screen. it’s unfortunate it comes right on the heels of your joyous wedding and in the middle of the holidays. i am very sorry they could not have at least waited until january to drop the axe.
but given the situation – my thoughts:
1. it’s their loss
2. this is the impetus to kick your butt in a more creative direction
3. apply for unemployment immediately while you are looking
4. get that resume updated (check for typos!)
5. think outside the box
6. continuing with more education on the side doesn’t hurt
7. persist
8. don’t feel defeated, another job will come along
9. make good use of the time you have off (finish the bathroom, paint the dining room, put up that damn chandelier, cook michael some great meals, etc….)
you are a wonderful asset anywhere you go. it’s going to be OK. (and if you come home i will make you hot cocoa and we can cozy under a blanket and watch movies.)
x
December 2, 2008 at 10:07 am
Budgie
Your mother is a wise woman, Molly.
It’s horrible that this has happened, but everything will work out and you will be ok.
Sending you good vibes!
December 2, 2008 at 10:11 am
Julienne Jiggs
I want to steal your mom by the way 🙂
December 2, 2008 at 10:16 am
A Super Girl
Molly, I’m so sorry. I think like you, we were all blindsided to hear about this but it’s just yet another depressing reminder of the economy these days. I live in Detroit and as you can imagine, it’s just plain bleak around here. I like to think I have some job security, but that could change in a month, and you really never know. I’ve often thought Detroit has it so terrible these days and if I just move it would be better, but that’s obviously not the case.
Good luck in your search, I’m sure you’ll find something soon. Supposedly the first of the year is a great time to look for jobs. And as another commenter said, at least you do have Michael to help support you (financially and emotionally) right now.
Thinking of you!
December 2, 2008 at 10:49 am
Jessica Lynn
so i didnt open my google reader last night (shocking, i know) and i missed this post. omfg molly i can’t believe this happened to you! please send your address so that i can ship you bottles of wine. perhaps its a sign to start your own little busnazz. hmmm. xo
December 2, 2008 at 10:55 am
Erin
Molly, I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. From the little I know of you (and from the extremely high praise that Mike and Anna bestow on you!) you will be a wonderful asset to any organization. Things will work out, they always do. As Sara commented on my blog awhile ago when I needed it the most, the wise words of Anne Lamott: “Left foot, right foot, left foot, breathe.”
Hang in there. (And I’ll have some wine in your honor. 🙂 )
December 2, 2008 at 11:03 am
Lisa
Your mom said it all – she is a wise lady & so supportive!!
Sorry this happened to you. It’s so stressful. Glad you have your husband there to help you through this! Nice to have someone to share the burden w/ when you are stressed to the max.
Sending positive thoughts your way….
December 2, 2008 at 11:08 am
pseudostoops
Oh yuck. So sorry. Hang in there.
December 2, 2008 at 11:11 am
wflooter480
Dude, it sucks. I was laid off last April. A month before my wedding. And started a new job two days after the wedding. It was very stressful, but, I firmly believe that things always work out for the best in the end if we are proactive. You’ll be ok. You seem like a very resourceful and hard working gal. =)
December 2, 2008 at 11:18 am
Melissa
Holy cow that sucks! And holy cow your mom rocks! And holy cow the comments!
I’m afraid of the same thing happening to me in the next few months. Things are just so bad right now. I agree with your mom – usually things like this end up being a tiny memory and all the things you do in the meantime, and what you end up doing/becoming is even better. So enjoy the wine and the time off and stay positive. I’m sure any organization would be lucky to have you.
December 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
Stephanie
Oh Molly! I am so sorry to hear that but like one other reader said when one door closes another one opens. Sending prayers your way!
P.S. I really like Anna’s idea!!!
December 2, 2008 at 11:28 am
Melissa
Good luck, I’ll be thinking of you! You’re such a talented writer, I’m sure you’ll find something soon.
Hang in there!
December 2, 2008 at 12:11 pm
Laura
I’m sorry to hear that! Good luck to you – I hope you achieve the dream of loving what you do!
December 2, 2008 at 4:06 pm
Cee
Sorry to hear what happened. I’m new to your blog, but I love your writing and I would totally buy your book :o) Best of luck to you!
December 2, 2008 at 6:29 pm
Courtney
I’ve rarely commented on your blog, but I read religiously. I’m devastated for you, but I think it can be such an open door to look for something you really truly want to do. You’re a strong woman (I get that from your words only) and I know you’ll find something. Take this time to destress from the wedding, have some more wine and then dive in to find something wonderful. Good luck, we’re all rooting for you!
December 2, 2008 at 6:57 pm
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December 2, 2008 at 9:08 pm
Danielle
I know EXACTLY what you are going through! I lost my job about 2 and a half months ago. I was going through all of the same feelings and it took me about 2 months of crying, frustration and everything else. I thought I was never going to find a job as good as what I had. 2 days ago I started training for my new job, the job that pays me 12,000 a year more than I was making. Just keep your hope going, and don’t get too down on yourself, it will all work out in the end! The best of luck!
December 2, 2008 at 10:41 pm
Chelle
Bastards! Does that help? OMG !!! I checked your blog yesterday, but apparently too early to see this. (Maybe I should do the RSS thing or something?)
Molls, I am so bummed.
😦
December 3, 2008 at 2:29 am
NYC Lust
I can’t add a lot but just want to tell you I am thinking good thoughts for you from the West Coast. I work in PR, too, so I wish I could help you if I was closer to where you were located. I say good for you, though, for trying the writing gig. You are an inspiration!
December 3, 2008 at 10:32 am
Ashley
Oh I’m so sorry Molly. It seems to be happening to everyone lately. I wish you the best of luck in finding a new job and try to think of the silver lining…something better will come out of this. Good luck!
December 3, 2008 at 12:50 pm
Froggy
Oh man… that sucks! Losing a job, even one you’re not particularly fond of (or, say, plan on quitting in a few months, just not at this particular moment), always sucks.
Bright side: I’m assuming that this was an economy-induced layoff rather than a caught-stealing-office-supplies firing, therefore, you qualify for unemployment! Which is a lovely, lovely thing.
Hope you’re feeling better today. Good luck with the job search!
December 4, 2008 at 12:52 pm
teality
What a great opportunity to focus on YOU and the things that you are passionate about. You never know what will come out of this seemingly closed door.
December 4, 2008 at 1:12 pm
La Petite Belle
I am SO sorry.
December 5, 2008 at 1:21 pm
Lyndsy
I am so sorry to hear about your job. I think you are in the right frame of mind with the wine 🙂 Also, you are totally right that this could be your big chance to try something new that you really want to do. Best of Luck!
December 8, 2008 at 1:02 pm
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