As a favor to a friend, I’m watching his children for a few days. I’d pretty much do anything short of sell heroin for this guy so when he asked me, I immediately said yes.
It’s not hard to agree when his kids are so. freaking. adorable. A boy, age five and a girl, almost two. The only downside of this whole situation was the hour I rolled out of bed this morning. Luckily, I had a bit of a drive to wake up because I am SO not a morning person.
Upon arrival, Dad was essentially booted out the door, “Bye, Daddy!” and play time commenced. I’ve worked with a lot of kids so I can say this with experience: these kids are easy. We played all morning, inventing new games, turning fire trucks into mail trucks, “cooking” on the Fisher Price stove and coloring. We laughed a ton.
The kids went down for a nap without a peep of complaint. (The little one was out like a light in moments, the older is currently reading a book in his bed.)
Like I said, they’re easy.
And the sun finally came out so after nap time, outside we go!
(My only concern slash fascination is the lack of urination going on, despite the constant question of “would you like to sit on the potty?” and frequent Pull Up checks. Dry!)
Here’s the thing, though. These kids? These adorable children who give hugs and brush my hair? A little boy with an infectious laugh and a little girl who patted the couch, made me sit and read me Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See inΒ a teeny, tiny voice?
Makes me want my own little family bad.
Really bad.
Like, now.
Are any of you going through the baby pains? How do you deal when there’s so much cuteness?
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June 4, 2009 at 12:20 pm
Jessica
You need to hang out with the kids I am around and then your ovaries would be mute!
Son of close friends who is 4, to me: “I am going to get your NiNis!”
I don’t know what NiNis are, so I have no time to prevent what happens next…when he GRABS MY BOOBS!
Stupid kid. Lovely parents, but ugh, really?
June 4, 2009 at 12:38 pm
A Bit of This
Yes! My sister has four adorable, well-behaved children. She makes it look so easy to be a mom and I want my own family every time I’m around them.
June 4, 2009 at 12:49 pm
Elizabeth
There is one couple in our church that has the cutest baby in the world and everytime I see her I want a baby like yesterday. But then I am reminded that we can’t afford a child right now π and that I don’t want to start a family until we’re in a house.
These reasons keep me patient for the time being.
June 4, 2009 at 1:00 pm
Inna
My ovaries have been doing summersaults too! But, now is really not the time to have kids… I would like to actually be able to raise them.
In the mean time I try to hang out with as many kids as possible. π
June 4, 2009 at 1:13 pm
each
oh lordy, I am failing miserably at that, if not for the wedding/house hunting to distract me I’d be on OM like a vulture on something dead (ew, wait…)
June 4, 2009 at 1:33 pm
Sara
So jealous you get to spend time with one of the worldβs cutest families.
June 4, 2009 at 2:14 pm
Kimberly Lee
I have 2 nieces, 2 nephews, and another niece of the way. It is kid central around my house. My ovaries are screaming for me to have a baby due to all the cuteness that abounds. Then my husband goes and does the following:
1. Teaches our oldest niece how to make wishes and blow the danelions across the yard
2. Teaches our youngest niece how to blow bubbles and chase them around.
3. Plays firetrucks and cops with our nephews.
Watching the man I love be a wonderful Uncle, makes me think of how amazing he will be as a father…..and THAT kicks the ovaries into overdrive.
June 4, 2009 at 2:21 pm
Dani
It’s easy when you don’t like children and just have pets! They’re cuter and easier to take care of! π
June 4, 2009 at 3:50 pm
La Petite Chic
Oh yes, yes I am. Though I often rethink it after spending an afternoon with my rambunctious, 4 year old nephew!
Someday soon for both of us, Molly π
June 4, 2009 at 6:18 pm
Jane
Umm … my ovaries are crying! But no babies until I’m done with my residency, which will occur in approximately 87 years. I am surrounded by adorable children all the time and I want one so badly! Before RLA deployed this time, we were in a bar (who brings a kid into a bar?) and there were 3 kids trying to figure out how to play foosball. Since their own parents were MIA, he walked over and gave them the money they needed and taught them how to play. I melted inside. π
Enjoy your babysitting time!
June 4, 2009 at 6:22 pm
fromasesameseed
Try this:
have your birth control run out by accident, go off the pill for a month, and get pregnant by mistake!!! works like a charm….
best accident ever!
June 4, 2009 at 6:35 pm
Kitty
I posted here a couple of months ago, when I was 8 months pregnant with my first baby. Well, baby is here (came 3 weeks early!!) and he is the most amazing, adorable little man. I can’t believe that I am his mom…it truly blows me away every time I hold him.
THAT SAID…it is harder on a marriage than I had anticipated. The pregnancy was soooo romantic, with my husband making sure I took care of myself, always “talking” to the baby, giving me back rubs, and constantly going out on dates with me while it was still just the two of us. Our baby is 7 weeks old now, and while we are totally in love with him, we are absolutely exhausted and testy with one another. I’m nursing the baby so my husband can’t really help with 2 a.m. feedings, and that starts to get really.old.really.fast. The laundry piles up so quickly, eating a square meal starts to feel like a distant memory, and you have to put yourself second all the time.
This phase will pass soon, I know. Already the little guy is sleeping better at night, which makes for much happier parents. And there’s no real way around that difficult period – you just have to get through it. But I wish that someone had really told me how hard it would be on a couple…it’s a lot to take on.
But who am I kidding – I had a bad case of baby fever, and wouldn’t take it back for the world, no matter how sleep-deprived I am right now!!
p.s. everyone talks about the cost of a baby, but so far I really haven’t found that to be the case. The hospital was kind of expensive (obviously don’t do it without good insurance), and diapers do add up, but with a baby shower and hand-me-downs from friends, the costs are really low. For now…until we really start that college fund!
June 4, 2009 at 7:36 pm
Vanessa
oh all the time! I have the world cutest most well behaved niece and EVERY.TIME. I see her, especially with my fiance, my ovaries hurt too, I know now isnt the time for a baby we’re getting married in a year and then we’ll think about it but that doesnt make it any easier to push the baby brain on the back burner.
I do have one complaint/problem, I cant believe how much it hurts me, like a stab to the heart when I hear of another woman getting pregnant, Im happy for them most of the time but it still hurts that it isnt my turn yet. One thing that makes me very mad is when women, mostly girls specifically who get pregnant because they “want a baby” I just want to scream at them that “Just because you want a baby doesnt mean you should have one!!” there are people out there like us doing the right thing and waiting for the right time in our lives so we can provide and everything but the girls out there who have one even when they cant provide just makes me furious.
I know a girl who said her and her FIANCE(because they cant afford a wedding) who she’s been dating MAYBE 2 years decided they were going to have a baby
-and then she got fired from her job but they keep trying anyways
-and eventually have to get rid of animals because they cant afford them but they STILL try
-and they do get pregnant.
-Those are the pregnancies that make me mad, you cant afford your wedding or pets but you “want another baby”??
Oh thats right is because the goverment will pay for your kids but not your pets…
Sorry that was so long just another thing in this world thats soo messed up! If you cant afford kids then don’t PURPOSELY have them, I know accidents happen but this was no accident.
June 4, 2009 at 8:48 pm
Amber
I, too, went through this phase! I wanted to be a mommy sooooo bad but it just.wasn’t.happening. I would spend time with friends who had kids and I had to watch while my husband coached football, baseball and basketball for our local park league. I am now 28 weeks pregnant! It seemed like this day would never come. When the time is right, it’ll happen. I used to be so angry when people would say that but now, I believe it. I’m not sure how religious you are but pray with Michael…that worked for us too!
June 4, 2009 at 10:22 pm
Kasia Fink
I definitely have to tell my uterus to shut up sometimes. It likes to remind me in a whiny voice that “you know, each month that goes by there’s one less egg in your basket, missy!!” Yeah, yeah I know. Zip it, wouldja?
To get over it, I enjoy making lists of all the things I do now that I wouldn’t be able to do if I had kids. Like sleep in on the weekends. Wait… when was the last time I did that? Ok, go out with friends. Hey wait a sec, I don’t do much of that either. Hrrmmm. Romantic dates with the husband? Uh. Where’s that list, again…? *shuffles paper*
June 4, 2009 at 10:40 pm
spamwarrior
AWWWWW KEWTNESS
I’m glad I’m a bit too young to get married, let along have children.
But kids are soooo darn cute… I can’t stand it.
June 4, 2009 at 11:01 pm
Kez
I’m only 25 but I get clucky constantly. If it wasn’t for university, I’d be off the pill in a flash. I tell everyone I’m not mentally ready, to keep them off my case, but I would do it in a heartbeat.
Especially when I see my pregnant friend and my god children.
I see the challenges but I think it’s totally my calling.
June 5, 2009 at 10:20 am
Sarah
Ugh. Yes. It horrifies my boyfriend. Every time we walk by a baby I get this silly grin and my shoulders scrunch up to my ears and my voice goes all squeaky. It’s ridiculous.
June 5, 2009 at 8:51 pm
Mike
Let me just say this, if your ability with these kids is any indication, you’re going to be up for Mom of the Year pretty quickly. They love you. And they already miss you.
June 8, 2009 at 10:21 am
Sheenah
I don’t know. I have babies on the brain all the time but we keep telling ourselves not yet. It makes sense but I really wish the time would come already.